Who rules ur decisions, MIND or HEART?????
@HumsafarMandeep (691)
February 22, 2007 3:26am CST
i m very curious to know this, coz its always a double opininion thinking with me, my heart says something and mind says the other,
sometimes i go with the mind and sometimes with the heart,and if consequences are not good i regret.
Wat do u do in such situations??
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@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
22 Jul 11
We often find in dilemma to choose between listening to the mind or heart. Sometimes I think we dominated the court and feel that leave us blinded by what we feel. Sometimes thinking too much and use too much question mark: "Why? What if? Why? Who? How? "... Thus annihilating state of joy. Always mastered only by logic and analysis, we lose sight of and we would not enchant anything nice. No scent of jasmine, no chirping of birds, blue sky, the appearance of the rainbow .. Would mean to give them all philosophical explanations. But if we possessed only of feelings, we become too vulnerable. We can not be mastered only by the intellect or the feelings only. Although they seem to be in conflict, living in harmony and feed each other with energy.
@appumse (20)
• India
22 Feb 07
It is a fifty - fifty scenario but in today's world it is 80 out of 100 times that mind is coming over matters. I believe your heart can never lie to you about anything, but such was the travesty of life that today man is not true to himself what to say about others...so im on mind's side anyways
@danmike (58)
• Nigeria
22 Feb 07
the heart and the mind always battle for recognition man. you want to do something but your mind is analysing the coonsequences, while your heart is telling you to go on.
the best thing to do is to apply both when situation demands,like the phenomena of falling in love.the heart will push you on but the mind would want to weigh the odds.
@merkava (1225)
• Philippines
22 Feb 07
My heart mostly makes the decisions for me. When I use my mind I tend to be just logical but when I use my heart it shows my humanity. Using your heart will make you hurt most of the time because you've invested most of your feelings in that decision you made.
@mic123 (204)
• India
22 Feb 07
Its a very tricky situation one can be in.Sometimes you have to go with your instincts.
@A_Skywalker (274)
• Bulgaria
22 Feb 07
I am ruled by my heart when I am in love. If it is for something else I am very responsible and always think with my mind. Thats why my mother said when I was 16 that I am thinking like 20 or more.