Do you think you have more responsibility as compared 2 anyone else at your age?
By coolsid2007
@coolsid2007 (1030)
India
February 22, 2007 9:41am CST
I do think that some people get more responsible in their lives as compared to others... but also do wonder that do they like being all that responsible and manage and control and get tensed in all those things ...
whats your say? do you like to have more share of responsibilities than others
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6 responses
@kalpan_vasa (324)
• India
25 Feb 07
I don't like to do comparison in such ways.
"Grass is always green from the other side."
One should compare his own past life with the present one and judge by himself. If you compare your life with others, you will surely get disappointed because it is general tendency that you will going to compare with only those people who are much successful, more happy then you. So, such comparison is of no sense.
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@coalasice (87)
• United States
23 Feb 07
I'm 22 and I have twin boys. I think one I could have handled no sweat. However the physical/emotional burden along with the financial needs of two is really taking a toll on me.
On the other hand, I couldn't give up my boys for anything.
While I was pregnant, someone told me "God doesn't give you more than you can handle"
Let's hope they're right, eh?
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@coolsid2007 (1030)
• India
25 Feb 07
Probably that someone has given you the best possible advice... i think you are doing a tremendous job
@highflyingxangel (9225)
• United States
22 Feb 07
Sometimes I feel I do. I'm in college and have to spend all week at school doing school stuff, and when I go home, they want me to do so many things at home, plus I try to help and take care of my grandmother whom isn't in too much of a right state. I take a lot of care of myself since my mom isn't always home and isn't in such a great state herself for those matters.
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@coolsid2007 (1030)
• India
22 Feb 07
More often than not .. i've seen or experienced who so ever is having more of a caring nature or some more easy going nature,,, have to participate in more forms of responsibilities earlier in their life than others.... i think its very nice and kind of you to be so helpfull and nurturing for those who you live around ... i also think that those whom you live with do cherish your existence in their individual lives... you must be holding a very special position in their lives... this is what i would think being placed in their situation...
@livelifemax (91)
• India
22 Feb 07
No I have never felt that way in my life.Well its highly relative and depends on with whom do u compare.Till now (my age is 20) i didn't feel that way.May be i will feel that way in future
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@michmdmama (77)
• United States
22 Feb 07
I think I do have more responsibility than most 26 year olds, but I have been a parent now for 6.5 years. She wasn't planned, but I put that responsibility on myself, imo and I think *most* of us put *most* of our responsibility on ourselves.
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@coolsid2007 (1030)
• India
22 Feb 07
I couldnt agree more to what you said... we are responsible to put ourselves in any circumstances... at this instance i can think of 10 axioms of Choice theory and can correlate your statement with those psychological factors that affect one's life
thanks for your response
