Is there a chance?
@marief2rnurse (2704)
United States
February 22, 2007 12:33pm CST
My sisters and I grew up in a broken home. My mom and dad divorced and for a while we lived with my dad and my grandma. I was my dad's favorite and my 2 sisters were my grandma's favorite. Now that we're all grown, we are not that close. I wish we were closer. I am good to them but I don't know why they can't be good to me as well. What do you guys think I should do to make them change the way they are with me? Thanks.
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4 responses
@jeweledbluerose (3061)
• United States
22 Feb 07
I think you and your sisters should have a civil talk about this. So you all can express your feelings and see why they are treating you in a bad way. Maybe they hold some pent up anger over your parents divorcing and instead of releasing it in a better way they are taking it out on the wrong person. I hope this can be resolved and I wish you the best.
@Willowlady (10658)
• United States
22 Feb 07
I have another friend here with similar rotten family. Being toxic they should not be a part of your life. There is nothing you can do to make them better people that would make your life any better. You are in charge of you and how you act and react. Time to take your three kids and you on a personal journey and become the best people that you can be. Happy, successful and fully functioning and contributing to society as you know it. If they have something to offer then let them come to you! Good luck my friend.
@Mgorg19 (65)
• Philippines
22 Feb 07
Don't worry marief2nurse just continue loving your sisters and later on they will realize it. You know sometimes we neglect other people especially our family members. We most likely trust our friends rather than our siblings. That's life especially if loving your family is not really taught at home. God will surely hear your prayers(wink)
