Am staying in hyderabad 25 years old i got in touch with a person of 27 years

Why are they not accepting your love? That must be really hard. I hope everything works out for you.

haritha , ,,, what a beautiful name ,, did you think the circumtances that may take place before you accept the sweet proposal of the guy from chenya, maybe not ,,,,, coz your in love, unlike in the other country , the girls, the ladies , the boys , ,, they are free to do anything what they want as long they can accept responsibillities , and cannot do harm to others, the famillies are on their side to support on what decission it may , On the other hand, the part of the world where you are living now, have different rules of customs and traditions, and iam sorry to tell you that as a girl like you ,,,,,you cannot do anything to choose the one you love and the one to be your partner in life without the consent of the both sides ive read a lot about the situation in some countries with the same custom like yours , the dignity , the honor for the family you belong, is being the one to be cosidered of , if he really loves you ,he will going to make any steps to fight for the love that he found in hyberabad,,,, just think and dont make any move that willl stop everything ,just pray to GOD to help both of you,,,,,

How can a cousin take all his money.?? You say he is doing Phd. He is an adult. He should move out and stay on his own. Why do you say he spoilt your life.?? You can go to a Marraige Registrar and have a registered marraige. Don't lose your Marraige certificate or give it to anyone under any circumstances. After that both your parents can do nothing.