can you afford to hurt your partner?
By vehaileairu
@vehaileairu (2286)
Philippines
February 22, 2007 1:18pm CST
abuse from physical to emotional.. and all the rudeness.. can you afford to hurt that special person?
i have read this discussion where she is brutally beaten by her boyfriend.. how come they can afford to almost kill you, when they say they love you...
is anger really that overwhelming? how could you be carried away...
is violence and brutality a hidden secret in a relationship.. can you keep it to yourself?
honestly, i rather be hurt that to hurt my love one.. but i wont come to the point he will be raising his hands, i wont allow that,but we'll never know.. but i can honestly say, i rather get hurt that be the one who's hurting.. i cant and never can live it that way...
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7 responses
@joven222 (84)
• Philippines
22 Feb 07
Physical and emotional pain should not be considered in a relationship. We cannot deny the fact that there are some hurtings and struggles along the ways with your relationship but this does not mean to go to the point of beating your partner for any reason there in. Problems that results to voilence is not a good sign. This simply means that you have have ignored the love that you feel or it just fade away. True love does not consider hurting the one that you love. And in that case, i can't really afford to hurt my partner in what reasons it may be.
As you have said, "i rather get hurt that be the one who's hurting..". This is very true. How lucky is your partner that he has choosen you. Take care!!
God bless!!
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@vehaileairu (2286)
• Philippines
22 Feb 07
thats honestly from my heart,
i rather be hurt.. than me hurting him..
and i agree that true love is not hurting someone.. plus for you..^_^
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@crimsonblues (1191)
• United States
22 Feb 07
I'm sorry but I am a firm believer that if he hits you - he does not love you.
Some people need help. Some people just need to be alone. I would never stay with someone who physically abused me
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@vehaileairu (2286)
• Philippines
22 Feb 07
i cant blame you, thats totally cautious, thanks...
plus for you.
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@BRIJENDRA (926)
• India
22 Feb 07
Hi friend, i cannot dare to do so because i will be in tension for days together and will have not a sound sleep.
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@vehaileairu (2286)
• Philippines
22 Feb 07
thanks brijendra.. thats a very wonderful person inside you, and i gave you plus.. i hope everyone is like you, but sadly not..
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@vehaileairu (2286)
• Philippines
22 Feb 07
hello, thanks, but, did you read the guidelines...
please dont post this way..
thanks..
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@gahsoon (187)
• Malaysia
22 Feb 07
Hi, I read your respone to that girl. I think this kind of people has no Confident on himself. He could perform, have no confident/ self esteem, could not recognise by the society, no place in the family... so the only place to realese his tension is the one who love him so much. these man is Sick.
As for me, if I have problem, I would rather discuss, talk it through. thats nothing that you two cannot settle, if you are still in love.
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@A_Skywalker (274)
• Bulgaria
22 Feb 07
I think only a weak man can hurt a woman. Someone who will just beat a woman to show what a man he is. I've heard about stories like that. But the women should also choose their men carefully. You choose your man!
I think I will never hurt my partner. I cant, she knows how to treat me and I respect her for that. Love her!
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@vehaileairu (2286)
• Philippines
22 Feb 07
good for you, thanks,... your a good man..
and i agree men who hurt us female are weak.
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