not too long ago i was about to give up on this...

I couldn't disagree more. I really don't know what is so appealing about asking strangers "what should I do?" or "What do you think?" I mean in the end the only person who can make any kind of judgment on the even is yourself. I don't mind people sharing things that happened in the news that we otherwise might not know about, then asking what we think or people asking others of a different culture how various things are viewed or reacted to...but the amount of the personal growth going on in this site is disturbing...alot of this stuff needs to be kept in house...so honestly I am here for the money...but hey if you feel better then like I said...thats all that matters. "different strokes, for different folks"