luv or arrange marriage?
By sudhir_328
@sudhir_328 (559)
India
October 14, 2006 12:00pm CST
I have found my true love and want to marry her but my parents insist on arrange marriage. what should i do??
10 responses
@marsha001 (673)
• India
14 Oct 06
Well, if you truly love her,tell your parents that you are going to marry her,whether they like it or not.
@baysmummy (1637)
• Australia
15 Nov 06
I dont agree with arrange marriages, I dont understand why two people who dont even love each other should be forced to marry and spend the rest of their lives together, Could it be the girl's family who they want you to marry has plenty of money? Why dont they like the girl who you are inlove with? have you even told them that you are inlove with someone else? I would go ahead and marry your true love and if your parents really love you then they will respect your discussion and support you if not then i a sorry.
@maddog108 (3435)
• Australia
14 Oct 06
tell you parents to live there own life not yours life is short live it the way you want to
@xxclairexxj (590)
•
15 Nov 06
I think you should sit down and talk with them about this outdated tradition. Why should you be forced to spend your life with someone who you haven't chosen to? It just isn't fair. You should tell them that being your parents, you'd expect them to want what makes you happy, not just what makes them happy.
@muffy_092000 (379)
• Philippines
15 Nov 06
I always believe on destiny like against all odds if both person are destine to each other no matter what... they will end to each others' arms. Love sometimes failed. Sometimes we felt that it is true love but on the end its fake. Arrange marriage gives you time to know more each other like the good and bad behavior as well to ask and confront yourself that inspite of the negative attitude you will still willing give yourself to that person. I know that heart can be teach to love to a certain person. Just apply the mind over heart and you will know one day you can't sleep without that guy. But at the same time arrange marriage didnt guarantee you to a long and successful marriage.