How to maintain affair or love marriage?
By sincere
@sincere (178)
India
February 23, 2007 4:15am CST
since the childhood,im hearing that most of the love marriage failed,and its quite difficult to maintain relationship with one girl\boy.I too have girlfriend since last one year,and i am trying make a balance between us,sometimes we quarrels over doubting eachother.I find my self unable to solve this trouble.what should i do?how should i maintain my love till the end my life?
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@capriage (29)
• United States
23 Feb 07
well .. i ve gone through a qoute .. its says .. love in relationship is decision not a feeling ...and i find it very true, when u fall in love its just love its a feeling .. but when the relationship grows, you start feeling that its not what u thought of a relationship .. u will have fights, quarrels, sometimes you will be irritated but then again ... at the end of the day .. u will need some one to talk to .. some one to laugh with ... and u will hav to go back to her .. but then again ... it becomes irritated and boring .. cuz you know u will have a fight sooner or later.. but it cant just end .. you cannot find a perfect match anywhere .. cuz maybe she was the perfect 1 untill you met her .. but now you think its difficult .. maybe if u fall for someone else .. she might be the perfect one in start but not forever .. so its ur decision to make the girl perfect for you .. you wont feel it .. you will have to decide it .. thats how it works .. thats how marriages works for life .. for 20 years for 40 years even more .. so just think .... if in 1 year you are taking it as a trouble then if you get married which is a life time commitment .. do you think u will be able to solve it ?? no .. until or unless you decide to love her and bieng with her forver ... and enjoy the fights .. thats the way of life .. thts how it relationship works .. love then fight then make up for it and then love again ... if u try to find answers and get confused about thse fights then the feelings after fights will always go on reducing .. if u decide to stay in love then it will grow .. .. :P ...
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@sincere (178)
• India
24 Feb 07
I think whatever you write was from the core of your heart.Thank you very much for the good advice,i will try my best to maintain relation.Fighing ,anger ,love this are the part n parsel of life,one shouldnt break the relationship for this reasons which are based on doubts.
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@ntejani17 (742)
• Pakistan
23 Feb 07
It all depends on you man. You must take care of little little things that you should not any mistake which makes her hurt and you should love her alot.
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@capriage (29)
• United States
23 Feb 07
well .. i ve gone through a qoute .. its says .. love in relationship is decision not a feeling ...and i find it very true, when u fall in love its just love its a feeling .. but when the relationship grows, you start feeling that its not what u thought of a relationship .. u will have fights, quarrels, sometimes you will be irritated but then again ... at the end of the day .. u will need some one to talk to .. some one to laugh with ... and u will hav to go back to her .. but then again ... it becomes irritated and boring .. cuz you know u will have a fight sooner or later.. but it cant just end .. you cannot find a perfect match anywhere .. cuz maybe she was the perfect 1 untill you met her .. but now you think its difficult .. maybe if u fall for someone else .. she might be the perfect one in start but not forever .. so its ur decision to make the girl perfect for you .. you wont feel it .. you will have to decide it .. thats how it works .. thats how marriages works for life .. for 20 years for 40 years even more .. so just think .... if in 1 year you are taking it as a trouble then if you get married which is a life time commitment .. do you think u will be able to solve it ?? no .. until or unless you decide to love her and bieng with her forver ... and enjoy the fights .. thats the way of life .. :P ...
@here_for_you (325)
• Philippines
23 Feb 07
A relationship will always have its own ups and downs. It's up to the partners on how they would cope with conflicts in the relationship. Most relationships failed because of superficiality and haste in making decisions. If a couple really loved each other, then, no conflicts will arise which they both can't solve. Another thing, communication and open-mindedness of the partners is are very much important in maintaining the relationship.
