What do you think of good guys with bad habits?

Philippines
February 23, 2007 5:23am CST
caring, loving, responsible to his family, have decent job, faithful and loyal to his gf.... but.... smokes and drinks a lot....
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@lauriefnp (5109)
• United States
23 Feb 07
A lot of people have bad habits and are still good, decent people. You have to put it into perspective. Maybe some day he will want to quit smoking, which would be great. As for the drinking, you should look at how you define a "lot". Does he drink and get drunk every day? Does he go out to bars and clubs every day? Has he been in trouble because of his drinking (driving, fights)? Does he come home drunk and start fights? Does his drinking interfere with your relationship in ANY way? These are a few signs that his drinking may be a problem for him and for your relationship. You need to decide whether or not this is something that is going to be a problem for you, remembering that if you choose him you cannot be sure that he will ever change. You have to accept him and his habits from the start.
@malini4u (896)
• India
23 Feb 07
i personally feels its not dat bad... coz the word goood mentions it all. evn though he got such habits like smoking and drinking..since he is good and loving..it doesnt matter..coz with that true love and caring....definitely he willl limit himslef form doin them in situations...