How would you help chain SMOKERS to stop smoking?
By coolali143
@coolali143 (139)
United Arab Emirates
February 23, 2007 5:28am CST
One of my friend is a chain smoker and he almost finishes 2 box of ciggrettes in a day ... and hez even lost lot of weight ... i have tried my best to make him cut down his smoking .. but it still did not work out... wha would you do to help a person like that?
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5 responses
@emekus4eyes (129)
• Lagos, Nigeria
23 Feb 07
firstly, let him cut the relashionship with the friends that smoke. Then let him develope another habit like chewing gum when ever he feels like a smoke.
@simran1430 (1790)
• India
23 Feb 07
I have seen many smokers who always regret about starting to smoke, when they are informed of the bad affects on health, but at the same time they say they cannot quit it now since it's a part of their life and they cannot live without it.Is it a bittersweet relationship where they both love and hate them. They may love cigs because it relaxes them and they may hate it because cigs are destroying their health and they know it.
@coolali143 (139)
• United Arab Emirates
23 Feb 07
yaa ... it seems like a nice relationship ..thanx for responding
@chocobaby (677)
• Philippines
23 Feb 07
i believe that there's no one else that can help him to do that but himself. if he is really determined to do it, he can do it by all means and at no cost. but if he's not, no matter what you do, he would always have reasons not to do it. you can only help him by giving him moral support and understand his moods swings that is caused by his stopping of the habit.
@coolali143 (139)
• United Arab Emirates
23 Feb 07
yaa .. thanx for your response and advice.. i guess it would really help me to help him
@callarse1 (4783)
• United States
23 Feb 07
I would first say that your friend is not going to stop smoking if he doesn't want, he comes from his own will to stop. You can always support him and say encourage things but you will be there for him when he wants to stop smoking, okay? That is how it was with my grandpa and aunt, you could tell them over and over, but they only can choose themselves to quit and I supported them when they decided to quit :D.
Pablo
@coolali143 (139)
• United Arab Emirates
23 Feb 07
oh that really nice to hear about your grandparents story... and thanx for your respond
@crashnburn (2)
• United Arab Emirates
23 Feb 07
A person can only quit when he is ready for it but you can encourage them till then but it has to come within himself.
I was a smoker but i quit only when i was completely ready till then i never cared what people told me & this must be the same with him .You can motivate him to stop & suppourt him.
@coolali143 (139)
• United Arab Emirates
23 Feb 07
are you sure that u were a smoker or you still smoke sometimes.. because i have known people who even after quitin smoking stil smoke sometimes....