how can you tell... (relationship)

I've been with the same person, a girl, for 12 years now. As I was 15 when we first started, I wasn't quite commited and I had to try alot before I got serious with her. And I can tell you from the experience that the relationship switches from casual to commited when you realize that you don't want to lose that person. You become commited to keeping the person beside you. and that means you have to invest in relatioship to make it work. Suddenly you have to take care of things even if you rather wouldn't. You have to put some effort in it. And these repeated actions become your everyday chorus. You become commited... As simple as that.

For me, a casual relationship is when you go out and enjoy each other's company, but you may go out with other guys/girls also. You do not have the right to get mad when you guy/girl flirts with other girls/guys. A commitment, on the other hand, is when both of you are faithful to each other. You may look at other guys/girls because you appreciate them, but that's just as far as you will go.

when i meet u , i would look into ur eyes for a minute then i would propose u in the most common way and then i would hug u and ask for ur reply ... and would also use phrases like " i can't tell u how i started to like u beyond limits , there will be no other girl in my life other than u " .

for me .. hahaha .. look into my eyes when we meet , and say ur feeling and then hug me and ask for my reply .....