What would you do if the one you loved was not actually the one you loved?

I think every relationship needs sometime... i really dont believe that LOVE has to do anything with compatibility...i mean you might LOVE a person but might not be so compatible with that person and at the same time you might feel good around certain person ... but you dont LOVE that person... so i guess as far as i know... initial LOVE is nothing but an attraction or a chemical reaction going through our mind... once if we find that we are not compatible with the one whom we thought to be as ..."THE ONE".. we tend to think this is not the person i loved to... actually its all about compatibility... which you and her or him will have to work out together... one person cannot do it all alone with other person not contributing alone... i hope this helps