On cheating partners....

Getting revenge will only hurt you in the end you will be left still feeling how you felt about being cheated on plus you will feel guilty and bad about sleeping with someone else, I say, just walk away you will be doing more revenge to walk away and find someone who makes you happy than, going out and putting yourself on the same level as the other person.

Well I am married with kids so I couldn't just leave and forget about him. Honestly I probably would forgive him (even though I hate to admit it), we have so much together that I don't think I could walk away from him and everything he has done for me. We have a life together and it would be easier to fix "us" than leave and start over.

CAnt answer this question i really dont know what will i do, how can you hurt someone who you love and on the other hand how can your love betray you for someone who might just be taking advantage of you. THis really is a question that i think no one can answer it and no one will want to even think about it and im sure people mostly will forgive coz love means forgiving and that what i would have done!

Getting even will never be an option for me. Not only will I put myself in a nasty situation, but I think I would be stooping down to his level if I do that. Walking away seems like the safest thing to do, but not before I let him know that I am aware of his philandering ways. After that, I'm gonna walk away and never look back. I would treat it another experience to make me strong and more mature so that the next time I fall in love, I would be wiser.

i would neither forgive nor forget. it is a serious issue and i refuse to be treated like dirt. i would walk otu of the relatiionship. if u stay on u are likely to get more insults and nothing else. he will cheat on u again.

Neither! You just leave and never look back. If he/she didn't have the respect to be faithful to you, then they don't deserve you bottom line.

I wouldn't get even because I don't want to just sleep with anyone, just to spite someone. To me, that's like biting off my nose to spite my face, because it will hurt me more than anyone else. However, I don't forgive either. It's too much to forgive. It may take years to forgive. I would just walk away and work on my own life and happiness and trust again.