Open relationships
By charlesming
@charlesming (1865)
Singapore
36 responses
@kishkumar (218)
• India
15 Oct 06
I think open relationships are overrated and usually only tolerated because someone is afraid of losing someone else. If you are with someone and you want to be with someone else...set the other person free. There are too many diseases and other negative possibilities to have "open relationships". If you don't want to be with someone let them know then be a man or woman about it and let them go.
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@krysi17 (234)
• United States
15 Oct 06
Ive done it before but dont recommend it to anyone with feelings.
@krysi17 (234)
• United States
15 Oct 06
The freedom of not being tied down when I was younger is why I did it.I believe that we loved eachother because after a while of the open relationship we started a serious relationship where we were loyal.Its kinda like a more then friendship thing to get to know eachother at first and then be serious later.
@charlesming (1865)
• Singapore
15 Oct 06
ahhh. i can understand that. good on u actually.
a lot of people get too serious too early when they are not capable of handling a proper relationship
@Annilyn (117)
• United States
17 Oct 06
An open relationship is almost 100% doom for a relationship. There are way to many feeling that get in the way!
@Faye88 (1009)
• Singapore
11 Dec 06
Sorry,I will not do that.You can call me names if I am different from people I will not follow a trend or things that other people do.Call me conservative if you want or strange weird nickname but not that as it seems to break my heart if someone I love do so.I cannot go together with that person at all as I treasure my life very much for my family(mum,dad,brothers,my kids(if I have ).As you know what I mean after I wrote this.It can lead to a lot of problems later example emotionally,physically then mentally.
@princess07031980 (5412)
• United States
6 Dec 06
OK-then I am obviously misinformed wioth all the this. :) I am sorry! My question though-when is it acceptable and when is it considered cheating?
@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
5 Dec 06
Just so you know an open marriage IS NOT the same as swinging...I am in an open marriage and it works for us though currently I'm no longer with my bf and my husband and I are currently only with each other but if one of us wanted to date someone else as well as be in our marriage we talk about it and take it from there..
@vishnukompella836 (160)
• India
11 Dec 06
first of all why sholud people want to opt for a open relationship?
is there any wrong wit their original relations whuch will dominate these type of relations.
according to me i dont wnat to share any ope relationship.
@charlesming (1865)
• Singapore
11 Dec 06
neither do i. but it does seem to work for some people. there is no right or wrong i guess. as long as the couple is happy with it.
@kapil_chetri (540)
• India
15 Oct 06
thats tricky..i will live only once..try not sommething different..wow!!!makes me hot
@canthelpbutlikeit (228)
• United States
17 Oct 06
YEah i agree with most people on this one. if it was a fling that would be alright, but as for my man actually dating somebody else then no. i couldnt stand to have another girl like me in his like
@charlesming (1865)
• Singapore
15 Oct 06
i see. understand. respect your opinion too. thanks for sharing !!
@aakash_myself (445)
• India
17 Oct 06
No way respect yourselve. You should have more love for you and your partner then that. An by the way you should be married. God Bless
@tentwo67 (3382)
• United States
17 Oct 06
I would not go for it. Open and relationship are two words that don't go together for me. It's the exclusivity that contributes to a good loving relationship.
@charlesming (1865)
• Singapore
17 Oct 06
i see.. well thanks for your contribution and sharing of opinion! :)
@RideCuStomy2k (917)
• United States
14 Oct 06
if its just a fling and i dont really care that much about the girl im dating, than sure y not. But if its not like that, than i wouldnt go 4 it.
@madonna143 (1737)
• Philippines
11 Dec 06
you have yet to define what the boundaries are of the so called "open relationship". Is it more of a fling or a one night stand?
@Sheila_Abram (1908)
• United States
15 Oct 06
No way respect yourselve. You should have more love for you and your partner then that. An by the way you should be married. God Bless
@bhbirdie6 (1765)
• United States
14 Oct 06
Not for me. I couldn't handle that. I need dedication. No way I'm settling for an open relationship. I think it's just a recipe for trouble and heartache.
@charlesming (1865)
• Singapore
14 Oct 06
thanks for sharing!
yes i do reckon we each want different things. most of us, like u and i do go for romance in its purest entity... i reckon?
@gnilraps1979 (310)
• Australia
15 Oct 06
maybe when I was younger and more carefree, but now been in 6 year relationship, would'nt even dream of it, I love him too much for that.
@charlesming (1865)
• Singapore
15 Oct 06
thanks for sharing your opinion! i guess it is about settling down finally.
all the best in your relationship ! :)
