confused to get married

Philippines
February 23, 2007 8:07pm CST
At present i'm having a long distance relationship and his asking me to marry him this year since we've been together almost 6 yrs. he just left this January for work. Im undecided about this matter coz I don't want to spend married life alone and there's no assurance for us to stay together since i'm also workin in government.
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maryannemax
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
24 Feb 07
if you found yourself in confusion right now about his marriage proposal, it just means that you aren't prepared to get married yet. so, why not tell your boyfriend about the situation you are feeling? it's better to open your heart to him since you had been together for 6 years already. i know being apart from the one you love is so so difficult to take. you live a life everyday alone. i am in a long distance relationship, too. and so, i feel for you. it's always better to talk things out. your confusions will only be addressed if you two try to understand each other. if he loves you, he will be willing to wait until you are decided to settle down with him.