What would you do if you caught your lover cheating on you?

Well, one thing I did do happened when I was engaged to a man before my now husband. My friend told me that he was cheating and had even video taped him with 3 different women who I knew. Well, first thing I did was tell my friend to keep video taping for a few more days. Then I made sure that all the girls were at my engagement party. Then the day of the engagement party, everyone was giving us toasts and my fiance even made a toast stating how much he loved me and swore to always be faithful. I stood up to give my toast and told everyone that I didn't have the words so I wanted to express my words through a music video. we rolled the footage my friend got along with a certain "B" song by Meredith Brooks. Everyone was absolutely shocked and he was on his knees begging and making excuses. I didn't even give him back his ring. I walked out with my now husband Jason (maker of the video) and used the money from that ring to pay for a trip to RENO.

I assume the term "lover" is meant to convey a relationship that hasn't the agreements associated with the term "spouse". A lover is a free agent. In that instance there is no cheating because there is no agreement , and I mean discussed and agreed to..not assumed, for monogamy on the lover's part. There is no "cheating" lover because the term doesn't indicate a necessity for monogamy. YOu either stop seeing the lover or you accept things as they are anc continue as if nothing has happened.

if my love cheating on me then i ll let her go and find another one,if she doesnt love u then leave her

slap him hard and leave him for good

If my lover is cheating me then either he/she loves someone else or is fooling me or is not satisfied with me.Then , what's the need of her in my life?I shall prefer to leave her and allow her to go on her own way .