Share your Do's and Don'ts for a relationship....
By SKLC_PT
@SKLC_PT (1234)
February 23, 2007 9:40pm CST
Please share your Do's and Don'ts for a relationship based on your own experience.
Some examples;Do's:
Tell the person you love them at least once per day; Do at least one think they like at least once a week once a day is even beter, like a massage, cook for the person....; give them a hug at least once a day if they are down give them more then that; ... Don'ts: Don't let them leave if they are upset especially if they upset with you, let the last words be good ones; Don't forget special dates like when you met, when you started dating; Don't forget where the 1st kiss was, or special songs....
Now it's your turn!
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4 responses
@brownie2227 (137)
• United States
24 Feb 07
What a great topic! We can all learn so much about nurturing our relationships! I've been married for just over a year and I've learned a few things and can always learn more! lol Here's my list:
Do's:
Say I love you everyday.
Love unconditionally.
Celebrate the small things.
Laugh Often.
(Hmmm..pluralizing don't? lol)
Do Not's:
Go to bed angry.
Take each other for granted.
Get TOO comfortable.
I look forward to hearing all of your posts on this topic!
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@SKLC_PT (1234)
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24 Feb 07
Thanks for your comment, I also hope to get some good pointers on other people's advice based on their own personal experience from their loved ones... I've been with my boyfriend for over 3 years but I say that it's never to late to learn some good tips. What do you mean by don't get too comfortable? I'd really like to know, is it when you do things you wouldn't normally do in front of someone like burping, and those sort of bad habits some people tend to let loose with their loved one or something else??
@brownie2227 (137)
• United States
24 Feb 07
Thanks for your response! By getting too comfortable I do mean the big things like burping etc. They can become turn offs very quickly. I also mean little things...not saying thank you, not caring as much about your appearance, getting into a set routine and forgetting your own interests. I think we all change after we've been in a relationship for awhile. We fall in love with people while they're trying to woo us and then after a few years they, of course, aren't trying to woo you anymore. I guess what I should say is don't stop trying to attract each other....keep the excitement alive!
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@SKLC_PT (1234)
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24 Feb 07
Thanks for taking the time to answer to my doubt. I thought that was what you were trying to say however I wantted to make sure I didn't misunderstand what you were trying to say, so thanks for the reply and taking time to clarify it with me. I do agree with you ;)
@kapoet (270)
• Indonesia
24 Feb 07
Relationship? I always do this:
1. Always smile to them :)
2. Always tell the truth about myself
3. Always try to hear what they want to say
4. Be there when they feel want to closed with me
I never do this:
1. Tell something made they hurt
2. Always try to know about their life but they don't want too
3. Every people has a privacy, and don't judge the friends just from the cover
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@SKLC_PT (1234)
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24 Feb 07
Thanks, I remembered another don't, try not to throw things they did wrong in the past in their face so to speak, as if you do it especially if you do it often you'll be corrupting your relationship with the bad past experiences instead of moving forwards so avoid it at all cost no matter how tempted you sometimes feel.
@gwenmari1029 (1481)
• Philippines
24 Feb 07
do's
1. take care of your partner, enjoy every minute that you are with him
2. always communicate; when you're happy share how you feel, when you're mad, tell him what makes you feel that way
3. trust him more than anyone else
don't
1. dont get angry, when he is angry
2. dont sleep without fixing an argument
3. don't sleep without saying i love you
