Illegitimate child

Why would you hide your child?If you feel like you have to lie about the child then don't you think there is something wrong with your relationship. In my eyes your child should always come first and if you are the type that would deny your child then I wouldn't want a relationship with you. If you could hide the fact that you had a child from me then what else would you lie about?

if i was going to marry that person, yes. they have the right to know before so that the feel good about it. honesty is the best before and after going into a relatioship. if they left then they never really loved you. but this is just me

I ll admit to my girlfriend because anyhow she can know this and it will be much painful for her if she heard from someone else and also i don't want that because of my matter my child would suffer

Yes i would, why not? if the guy can't accept this fact, then it's goodbye. My priority will always be my child over some guy, that is if in case i still would have a chance to have another relationship ^_^