Why do we love someone...????

rose - expressing love
India
February 23, 2007 11:55pm CST
I want to know specially from girls why do they love to boy what are the things due to which they love a guy plz tell me so that i can try to make one...
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7 responses
• United States
25 Feb 07
There are as many reasons that people love each other as their are grains of rice in a rice field! You cannot and should not try to become something you are not. Be yourself. That is the reason why someone will ultimately love you. Don't try to hard to find love - the harder you try - the more it elludes you. Stop looking and it comes knocking on your doorstep!
@faye_co (38)
• Philippines
24 Feb 07
Love doesn't need to have an explanation, you just feel it. Whenever I'm in love, I really don't know why I'm in love with this person. Maybe it's the feeling, the feeling that I'm comfortable with him.. the feeling that i don't want to lose him and the feeling that I don't want to end a day without seeing him. If you want someone to love you, just be yourself. Don't even try to be someone you are not. Girls love guys who are spontaneous. And just let the girl feel that they are important and loved. On the other hand, don't find love.. love finds you.
@Jemina (5770)
24 Feb 07
I believe that we are created to love and to be loved. Women have different ideals of being loved but I think that most, if not all of us, women just loved to be appreciated and heard. We want to be the center of our love's attention and we want to hear it. I think this is where men and women differ mainly. You men fall in love thru your eyes while we, women fall in love their our ears.
@aries_0325 (3060)
• Philippines
24 Feb 07
Because we love them and we feel it to our self.
• United States
24 Feb 07
My husband is an amazing man. He goes to work 40 hours a week (sometimes more) and turns over his entire paycheck to me so that I can pay the household bills. He also cares for, and loves deeply all of my children, though most (only 1 actually is) are not his. He is funny and caring and thoughtful. Yes, he can be a pain. Everyone is from time to time. However, the wonderful times clearly outnumber the bad. I knew that our marriage would be an amazing thing because I had such a wonderful time at our wedding, and there was no drinking or anything like that. I was so melancholy with my first wedding. I have pictures of my 2nd wedding where we are just having a great time, laughing and goofing off. It is one of my favorite memories. My husband has an amazing sense of humor. He is a very considerate lover. I think all of these things make an amazing man, one that is very loveable. And that is the biggest thing, he loves me. He loves me more than anyone has ever loved me, and he tells me so. He holds me, and kisses me, and hugs me, and rubs my feet and my back. And most importantly, he loves me. I smile when I think of him. And he is an amazing kisser too. Very soft and passionate, with just enough rough to make me melt.
• Singapore
24 Feb 07
Loving someone is a gift that you have and noto wanting anything back from them. Its a pure feeling that you want to share your life with. I love my husband and my children so much that you only want the best for them. What make me love him is that he is always there for me when i am in need and feeling down. To care and to show your effections to the the other party is important in a relationship. Especially if you want to have along relationship. Understand and learn about each other then you need to compramise. Love takes work actually from both party.
@bindishah (2062)
• India
24 Feb 07
I think we all need someone to rely on. Someone who would listen to us when we want to talk or discuss something, be our strong support system. When someone is this for us, often times it becomes difficult to live without this person coz you want to share everything with him/her. I thinbk thats why we all fall in love - to hve a companion all our life who will be there with us in our ups and downs.