is it easy to forgive?

i can understand your situation...if it had been till you..you could have thought to forgive him but he has affected you to the point that your family also got affected...its a bit more difficult to forgive him! if he did it deliberately ..then its more difficult to forgive him! though i dont say that you get into talking terms or so..but if you forgive him,you will feel great and quite relieved! he has been payed for his bad deeds by God himself and ruining his health is one of the biggest punishments he could get! i know its tooooo difficult but once you forgive him(remember whole heartedly )your anger will disappear and this disappearance would bring in new surprises in the form of relief.and your act may make him feel guilty over his actions which is very necessary for him to realize!

Id say dont do anything. If he is really sorry he will ask for your forgiveness. Then you can try to forgive him. But if not dont waste your time trying to offer him something which he doesnt want. People like that generally dont feel sorry and if you go offering your forgiveness he might just find it funny. So my advice: dont do anything. I personally dont thing you should go forgiving him unless you really feel he is sorry for everything he did.