To know or Not to Know

I would want to know....if he ever got caught..it would be the end of the world for him!!! but you know in many cases men or women cheat and their partner NEVER finds out....and in that case it's whatever you don't know doesn't hurt!

Ignorance may be bliss, but it is also cowardly. A person should want to know. They should face their problems and take action on them. Why let a person screw around on you, just because you don’t know? Why let them make a fool of you because of your ignorance? Know, or find out and get rid of the cheater!

I definitely would wish to know which would be very heartbreaking though.

I would rather know because I more time & I'm gone & he wont see his daughter until he can grow up and be a real dad

I would probably want to know, it would hurt but you can't go through life not knowing something so serious.

wow! i'm in a dilemma...one hand i wanna know, another hand i rather not.....but seriously, if he's cheating, i guess i will want to know and end the relationship. i think i deserve better than to be with a two timing jerk!

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I would like to know. If my mate was cheating on me, rather I break the relationship off than look like a fool.

I would of course want to know, he could be bringing me home all kind of diseases. If he I found out he was cheating then we would get a divorce no questions asked. If he loved me and cared about me like he says then he has no reason to go and stray.

I would rather know if he is cheating so I can end the relationship. There is no way that I'm going be sharing my man or be played like a fool.

I'd rather know for two reasons. 1. Other people are going to know and I'm going to look like a fool if I don't. 2. So that I can kick the sorry SOB out of the house and divorce his sorry butt.

Know!! and if he was I would leave in a heart beat.

I would want to know. It would hurt tremendously but I deserve better than someone who could do that to me. I would leave him forever, no apologies or excuses. If he loved me enough he never would've cheated on me in the first place.

if i was in love with him then i would rather not know in the long run because that would crush me.

I would rather know so I can dump his butt and move on with someone who will be true to me