I'm Getting Married But I still Love My Ex!

the best thing to do is dont get married it's kinda unfair on the part of your fiancee if you're just marrying her for the seek of this so called "engagement" jst follow your heart but be sure and your mind comes after it.. Goodluck buddy.. welcome to mylot

Oh my! This is so sad. :-( How come that it reached the point that one is engaged before realizing that he is still haunted by his/her unfinished business with an ex. Well, if I would be in this predicament, I will never say I do without having a closure with my ex. I will have to reasses my feelings with my fiance. Perhaps talking to my ex will be helpful-- not to obtain a recon but just to find answers to my questions so that I can be sure with future decisions that I will be making. Definitely, I will never tie knots with somebody while having feelings with another person. It is unfair not only to my future spouse but to myself as well. I believe that I will never be happy with somebody that I do not love.

i would never recommend getting married if i was in love with someone else, marriage is far too hard a thing to do and to make it work without love. If you have any doubt at all then dont get married