love lost!!! causes pain ?
By hi_gourab
@hi_gourab (242)
India
4 responses
@meeandnotyou (2548)
• United States
24 Feb 07
Yes I can but that is because I KNOW that I am a great person and she is not the one that makes mee a great person as it is mee and mee alone. If she leaves mee it is her loss not mine as I am a great guy, any woman in the world would be lucky to have mee.
I am kind, considerate, caring, affectionate, self suffecient, intelligent, and funny just to name a few of my many qualities. I do not need anyone in my life since I came to peace with being alone a long time ago.
So I guess the tips I could give you is focus on your good qualities and recognize that it is their loss not your's. Because untill you can come to terms that you did not LOOSE you will always feel DEFEATED!! So remember YOU DID NOT LOOSE ANYTHING YOU GAINED YOUR FREEDOM!!
Smile and have a great day!!!
@meeandnotyou (2548)
• United States
24 Feb 07
My level is not too high for all women as I do not think that I am better than anyone. I am simply content with who and what I am and noone can make nor break mee unless I let them. I am not better than anyone, hell you may be a far better person than I am but I do KNOW that I am a good person and I treat the one I am with like gold, hell I treat everyone better than I treat myself, this is how I KNOW I am a great person. I am good to others damn near to a fault as I get used all of the time. And if she wants to give up someone like mee for someone that may hurt her then that is her loss not mine since I cannot even immagine hurting her in any way, that would kill mee. I would literally kill myself before I would hurt her.
So before you try to judge mee find out who I am as I am a great guy and I know this, I do not put myself above anyone else, as that would just plain be wrong. And to be with mee is an assett to whomever I am with since I work my butt off to try to make it perfect for them. I give all that I have and all that I am to my relationship, can you say that?!? Is there anyone else here that can HONESTLY say that?!? I give my partner the moon and offer her the stars as everything I have is their's including my LIFE. Would you die for your partner? Would you do prison time for your partner? Do not judge mee as you do not know mee, I am a truely great guy and I know it and anyone that does know mee will atest to that!
Thank you for the response although it is entirely wrong and have a great day!!
@howard96h (11640)
• New York, New York
25 Feb 07
Time will heal all wounds. I know it's hard, painful and depressing at times but as time goes by it does get easier. It also helps to go out with a friend and talk about your feelings. I hope you do well and don't let yourslef get sick over this.
@devikanna (30)
• United States
24 Feb 07
Love will remain and it is not going to be lost, u will receive the same love from someone else, you have to just pass the time wihout worrying about the lost love thinking that she is not urs