To tell or not to tell...
By catcai
@catcai (1056)
Philippines
8 responses
@ekwits (510)
• Thailand
25 Feb 07
I will tell my boyfriend first. For me, If my girlfriend got a pregnant,i will be responsible for her. I have a responsibility about what i have done. I love my girlfriend ,i will not let her have an abortion and we will solve this problem together. I know my parents,i will understand because they used to have a baby.
@catcai (1056)
• Philippines
25 Feb 07
Good for you and im glad that you're man enough to face the consequences of your actions. Unfortunately in this case- the guy doesnt love the girl that much thats why he wont take responsibility for it, and he can't afford to give the girl financial support, if this is the case- is it right to tell the guys parents what their son did? since their son isnt responsible enough considering he's already 28- and whats worse about it is that- he not only does not love the girl= BUT he has a current girlfriend whom he prioritizes. so whadya think people?
@kaiyascloset (372)
• United States
15 Mar 07
Probably but it depends on the age. If you are still living at home with your parents, then yes you should tell his parents. If you are older and able to manage without, then I would leave it alone.
@silvermoonmyst (943)
• United States
25 Feb 07
Thats a rough desision... I think i would sit down with my parents first and discuss my options. Figure out what i was wanting to do. I say this because im relativly young, and when i got pregnant the first time it was very stressful.
I would tell the prosepctive grandparents that they were expecting a grandchild. Because they deserve to know they are ging to be adding to their family in a few months. They may or may not be able to make their son do anything( depending on his age) , but they deserve to know about it.
@mummymo (23706)
•
15 Mar 07
obviously you have to speak to your boyfriend first but if he is unwilling or unable to support or take responsibility for you and the baby then I would recommend going to his parents, not necessarily for financial support but you can use any help you can get when you are alone with a bay and this is their grandchild! Any reasonable grandparent would want to be involved with and help their grandchild and it would not be fair to deprive them or the baby of this ...
@wishangel (225)
• Malaysia
15 Mar 07
no, i wont,because this is the thing of urself, no need to get involve of ur parents unless u wan to get married
@kallisboni (2)
• India
15 Mar 07
its not the right way meeting his parents.its him not his parents who have to live with you if you succeed.so what i mean is if i am in the same situation i will talk to him to marry me.if he rejected you contact his parents.there is less possibility of his parents acceptance.if they accept also you marry him if you feel you can make him yours.if not live your life and take your revenge.
@danishcanadian (28955)
• Canada
25 Feb 07
Yes, I would definitely go to his parents and tell them!!
@cymbelline (14)
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25 Feb 07
Probably, not, because I am 32! If I was a teenager (which I assume is what you mean) then I think my parents would let his parents know pretty quickly...
