how do u stop ur relative from getting to close??!!

Ya it is big problem for devloping girl.I have friend Rita.Her sisiter faced such moments in her life.Once she went to a marriage party.There was three young guys who are in relation was uncle of her.They just manage to seen her a adult movie and naked her suddenly.Once they all reped them she becomes mentally disbalance.

SHOUT, SCREAM, YELL, BE A LOUDMOUTH, KICK, BITE, BARK, SOUND THE ALARM, TELL at the first sign that someone does something that makes you uncomfortable. Child molesters are GIGANTIC COLOSSAL HUMONGOUS COWARDS (that's why they molest children). They love secrecy, dark places, hiding under a rock). Exposing them is the only way to stop them. One should tell their parents (tell all the neighbors, if it's a parent), tell their teachers (tell other teachers, if it's a teacher) tell the police (tell other police, if it's a police), tell the neighborhood (tell the next neighborhood, if it's a neighbour), tell the world (tell the other planets, if it's an earth person). By the way, one should not be embarrassed, the molester should be embarrassed. By the way, I can tell you, it's not only young girls that get molested. By the way, one should keep speaking out till they find someone that believes them. Speaking out is a protection, silence is an invitation to be molested again and molested by others as well.

...turn on tiny video camera on and get the proved.....

Kick them in the B*****s and run all the best urban

The only thing u can do abt it is by telling ur parents abt it.If the parents r in their right senses they wouldnt ignore it at all or think that u r just playing a joke or something. I think its the duty of every parent to see that they talk about this issue with their kids when they r able to understand,let them know that if anybody ever tries to get close to them (anybody be it relatives,strangers,or even their parents sometimes)they shold speak out. As to stop someone getting close its better avoiding them altogether and let someone know abt wats happening there.

There isn't a way to make sure that it doesn't happen but you can take steps to try and prevent it from happening though. Try and limit the people that you leave alone around your child and always listen to your child when they have something to tell you.

It is always better in these situations to talk straight.So that it becomes very clear that what you want.

try to infrom some one who is close to u.. so that it will help u a lot in da future..

hmm.be straight..and speak out and let the other person know that you don't like it ...!

I have a five year old daughter and at her tender age I try to teach her that she should not let anyone touch her, especially her private parts be it friends or relatives. I also tell her not to be afraid and tell mommy right away. They should not be afraid or be embarassed to tell their parents because they can help them. I don't think unless you're strong enough to stop the harassment yourself, they will keep on harassing you unless you open your mouth and seek help.

by making some mischeiv things wich will irritaed them then they will not come closeee

I had this problem for many years myself. I have learned since though that these people's greatest power is they know you won't say anything. Talk to someone, doctor, pastor, councelor - the only way they will stop is if they see they will not get away with it.

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I was once in your shoes...I didn't tell my parents because I was embarrassed, ashamed and I felt lik e I had done something wrong. That is not the case. You are not the one doing something wrong...If it makes you feel uncomfortable, if the touch is in places that your bathing suit covers up, that is not playing on your part...You may ask the person to not touch you like, if it stops, they are probably going to find another person to touch like that. Evenually the touching will grow into something else. You have to have the courage to stop it now. If your parents do not beleive you...go to someone else. Evenually you will find someone to believe you. The most importatn thing is to NOT LET ANYONE MAKE YOU BELIEVE YOU DID SOMETHING WRONG! Find someone now and report this. IT IS ABUSE! Safe Hugs Patty www.LavenderPower.org

Try not to be alone with him. If he touch you... even if it is only his hand on your knee... warn him not to touch you or you will bite him. If he touch you again... bite him on his hand. The trick is to not ever let him touch you... even if it is just a friendly hand on your shoulder... because this encourage him to go further. Everytime he tries... tell him "don't touch me". If somebody else is in the house... warn him that you will scream. If he touch you... scream. If the guy is civilise... he knows he is doing the wrong thing... and he don't want to be caught. In such case... the screaming and the biting will be enough for him to get the message and leave you alone. Next... find out who he is scare off. Is he scare of your mother... father... or perhaps he is scare of his wife. Once you find out... warn him that you will tell the person you did find out he is scare off. Whatever happen... if you cannot handle it... you have to tell your parents. And if that don't work... you have to tell your teacher. Your school will help you because they have to.

Move. Sometimes that is the only way of getting away from them. If they are bringing you down, you shouldn't have to be around them. Family or no family, no one has the right to make you miserable. You have to force your family to know that you are serious. That is terrible that they do not believe you, and or taking you seriously.

this is very bad. it seems like a rape. it you are not saying any thing about that, so you will face this type of rape again and again. if this type of thing happend with any girl so pls dont feel embaresd and told to trustable person like your father, mother, brother and lady teacher etc. i am also a male. but i hate that type of male who dont respect girl.

I think the best option to adopt in this case is to tell your parents first, you need to be positive in your mind and do not hesitate to tell them because in my opinion parents are the closest then any other relative.

If you are uneasy about the situation tell the relative or friend. Most of the time they will not realise they are making you uncomftable and will be apoligetic. This is YOUR life and YOUR body and you have a RGHT to feel safe and say NO. If it doesn't stop tell anyone you feel safe talking to and someone you can trust, i know it is eaiser said than done but it must stop now.

well i think is such cases if your parents dont trust you then you sould immidately go to the cops n file a complain....this would certainly make your parents belive thts you werent playing a prank....