are you in a open relationship?
By alexutzu
@alexutzu (106)
Romania
4 responses
@coolsexychix (128)
• Philippines
10 Mar 07
open relationship is sucks! im not been into one but i dont like it...coz its like your cheating on your beloved...if you are in this situation, you'll never know who love you the real you...its like turn between two lovers
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@chakotay (240)
• Romania
9 Mar 07
In some circles, couples have experimentig with idea of open relationship, meanyng they have agreed to be non-monogamous. In theory, this may seem like a way to infuse more pleasure adn energy into a relationship that that might become dull and staid form years of same old , same old in the bedroom.Coples who have tried this way of reigniting passion in their relationship usually do so with the idea of strengthering their bond with each other.They think that if they were to find more excitement together, they would be less likely to find excitement apart.
I recommend a five-step process to ensure that couple is in fact ready:
1. Step one entails a conscious commitment to each other and their relationship.
2.Step tow you become completely open and emotionally honest with each other(emotional transparecncy)
3.Step three requires athat you develop "radical responsibility" by turning your relationship into a "blame-zone free".
4.Step four suggest that you focus on your own creative expression.
5. Step five demands that you show " radical appreciation" for each other other both verbally and non-verbally
This approach to love, kust, and ralationship is indeed quite radical and it may not be for everyone.
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@babytraze (14)
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9 Mar 07
yes...i am right now...its been 3 weeks... i can say that its d only thing that complicates me... i get paranoid sometimes... and its hurting right now... i dnt know if i can hold on still... but m trying to prove my love... i can see my seld dying of loneliness...im getting tired of it actually... i dnt know...maybe if i get tired of this open relationship..ill quit... and ill move on completly...
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@misshellokitty (4)
• Romania
9 Mar 07
i don't think that open relationships are good...becuase you can get all kind of illnessis and is destroyng your emotions