who do u like the most DAD or MOM???

Oh I love both my parents very much I am very close to both of them. And it's hard for me to decide who I like better. I love both of them in different ways.

If you live with a parent who is mean to you it can cause problems you will remember your whole life. Trust me I know. My mother and I lived together after the divorce. She did not want me and I was in the way. She wanted to be with her boyfriend alone. My dad did not want me either. He was busy dating also. I could live with my aunt and uncle but it was so far. I had to drive 35 miles just to get to school. We can drive at 16 here. I lived with my mom. I had a room there. She was so emotionally abusive. I still do not get along with her. I would live with your dad if he will be kind to you. It is hard to understand now, but boyfriends should not determine what you do at a young age. You can email him and try to visit and you make meet someone new in Kentucky. Why don't you ask your dad if you can visit and see the school you would go to and see the room you would stay in. Ask if he has an friends with kids your age. Do you have any cousins there? Think about it. You might be able to get along better with your mom later. She shoule really put you 1st. Can you live with grandparents? Would that be a good place? Think of all your options. Moms get selfish and it is bad, but you cannot stop them. If you hate the husband do not live there it will get worse. It is hard to ignore I tried, but my mom just screamed in my face. Her man was too important. He wanted her to leave him alone sometimes and spend time with me, but she said she did not do things with me anymore. She was obsessed with him. They broke up and she still hates me. She is living with a woman now and still hates me. I am not saying it is the same. When she was with my dad she loved me and did things with me like art. Now she just hates me because I remind her of my dad.