What would you prefer the one you love over family or family ovr love
By psu31e
@psu31e (25)
2 responses
@mansha (6298)
• India
25 Feb 07
It depends how old are you and how uch you know this guy. Because in India we do not marry a gyuy buit we marry the whole family ,the culture and the background of the guy. In my country, so many times the guys change after marriage. we are supposerd to livwe with the guys family and take care of them in old age. Once the couple get married suddenly the boy remebers how much his parents need him and he expects his girlfriend now iwfe ot obney theior house rules and culture and rituals-this often leads to frustration. hence I always tell girls not to just fall for the guy but do a check on the family too. marriage is a two way street. since in India dating still is a taboo and gilrs generally are too much protected they often fall for the first guiy that coes along and confuse infatuation with love hence the age and how much you know about the guy does matter a lot.
@avgeorge (13)
• India
26 Feb 07
a reason i've never been in luv is that i constantly fears that my parents won't approve of that girl.the result would be great disappointment 4 me as well as that girl.anyway i won't pain my parents 'cause they r more than anything else in this world 4 me.when v were born v were not more than the size of a mango.they brought me up with great care.so i won't pain them when it comes to my marriage.
@vicky_lane4987 (980)
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26 Feb 07
personally i would choose my partner over my family everytime...infact i have done this a few times already...i think that if my family are the ones who are giving me trouble or if they are giving me an ultimatum (which they havnt) then i will always choose my partner over them...i am in total head over heals love with him, so there is no question in my mind that i would choose William over my family
