Secret of being happy

my hubby is ine person who I can saycan remain tension free in worst of circumstances. I have been with him for fouteen years and for all problems he has one solution , sleep it off. When he comes back and I am tense over something, he will always say, okay I will solve this tomorrow morning and by morning the problems sorts itself out or if its still there he has a solution to it. he says half of the problem is that we wat all the quick solutions and worry needlessly. He laughs loudest when he is very sad, all the person he works with are amazed at his capability of diffusing a tense situation. he has worked in toughest of places as a soldier and stillmaintained the maral of his troops always. His bosses ring him up to know what happenmed to some arrangements and are often surprised when there biggest worries had all been taken care of. I am alos know as always smiling but I do get tensed and worried but he is the one I have never seen stressed out and tense. He cultivated this habit in himself when he was in college and life has tested hi a lot and he says become like a slippery pot and nothing will effect you. stop expecting anything from others just do your work as hals of the tension is because we expect a lot from others. try it may be you also will attain that, who knowa.

I don't think it's possible to be happy ALL the time... I mean, there's a lot of people who put on a front no matter what's going on in their lives good or bad. We all have our bad days, all have our problems, and tensions... There's no way to change that. You can try to be as happy as you can yes, but you will never be happy 100% of the time no matter how great things are for you. The bad times just make us stronger, and i don't think the people putting on those fronts actually get that every happy moment they show... I guess you don't really know someone until you have to be with them every second. It's just as hard for them as it is for us. Don't worry... That's just the way it is. You can be truly happy and have a bad day too.. It happens, It's life. We just get through, get by, and live like we never lived before.

the secret lies with your state of mind,mind settings is really responsible for this; if you don't take too seriously about all the goes around you ,you bound to stay on the neutral - HAPPY !

In high school I allways seemed very happy and content with my life, in reality I hated it! then I had some really bad things happen to me and it started to show that I hated life. Now I have started trying to look at the good side of things and try not to let so many things worry me. If you stressed from work, do something fun or relaxing, take a walk, a bath or play a sport. also take a break from work, even just one day, where you do nothing related to work and just have fun

I think it is impossible to "always" be happy. Life truly is a roller coaster, It's how we handle those curves that keep us sane. I try not to let my problems and stresses show in every day life. Sometimes we just get overwhelmed with the every day grind we forget to be happy. I think the older we get the more capable we are to handle the stress also. We learn coping skills and know which tools we have do us the best in relaxation and contentment. But still I do not think anyone person can be happy all of the time.

Happiness lies within ourselves, and the more u try to find it in objects, or things u dont have, the farther u'll be going from it.So i think just try to belive in the present moment , belive in what we have now,give ur 100% to whatever ur doing now, And believing that whatever happens,happens for good will help u .So be happy and keep smiling.......

Well they are very lucky People then, as I have never come across a Person yet that is always happy. I wish to that I knew their secret. I would be happy to have no problems and just live Life with no saddness.

Hi ajith.. Its just simply.. Dont give much importance to all ur problems just stay cool always.. Be a easy goer.. All happiness is in the mind :) So have fun and enjoy the life.. Keep smiling :)

there is no secret.this things already know evryone! ---make friends and maintain friendship ---if you get depressed gofor an outing with your family,friends! ---make always happy face ---always thing tomarrow is better than today! ---listening to music

actually life is a mixture of pleasure and problems.every one has to suffer both ways of life.but u can always be happy by leaving jeleousy.if u are also happy in others successs including your own success , you will feel as u are always happy in your life. but if you have jeleousy for others u will always have tensions and problems.

There isnt such a secret to be happy permanently, it is different for everyone. I am happy cause my football team is winning, you are happy cause you watched a great movie. Different people, different happy ideals. There are also people that doesnt take problems so personal and they live happy, there are people that take problems very personal and always think about something, even in their spare time. I am something in the middle. But to be happy is different for everyone. Thats my opinion.

I'M a teacher.when I spend my vocation time I feel vey happy.but when the last days begin to work ,I become very worried.nowdays the work tension becomes more and more seriously.students can make me lose my job.I don't find the way to make me always happy.just as you looking for the life without tensions

If u want be happy in life u shoukd make sure that others are happy because of u & thats dude is the secret of being happy

the secret in life is contentment.. if you are not contented of what you are and what you have then you can't be happy.. Don't worry much or think much. Think only of the important things or the things that you value. Determine you first priority and make a move. If you didnt make it in the first try, don't worry theres always a next time..

For me the secret to being happy is waking up in my hubby's arms each morning and having him sing silly love songs to me. Having a family that loves me unconditionally even for all of my faults.

I think you can be happy too, it is not the question of secrets, I think. A lot of people who belive in their GOD truely can say that they are happy in each minute of their life. I do not belong to any religions... But I belive in MY god, in my destiny. I say thanks every day to my God, for my simple life. I and you can be happy for the smallest thing that happen, or not happen to you. I am glad in each minute, that I can walk, I am glad in each minute, that I can talk, I am glad in each minute, that I can hear, I am glad in each minute, that I can see...and so on. I am glad in each minute, that I have a wonderful son. I am glad in each minute, that I have a great boyfriend. I am glad in each minute, that I have a flat that we can live in. I can be glad that I have a few proprerties, that I can use. So it is not so difficult to be happy. You know you can value your life, or your little things, when you loose something. We may not know what will happen tomorrow. If you realize, that how RICH you are in fact, you will be happy too. Take my best wishes.

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Well happiness is found in the simple things in life. It is simple and straight. If I am in some tension, I do not let the world know about it, I endure it myself and I always try to keep my desires limited and I keep myself busy and I am happy. I am not saying that I do not have any tensions, I have problems that could make one shocked in disbelief but hey thats what life is all about, walking the walk with the good and bad.

to me its impossible. there are going to always be some sort of downfall your going to have to go threw. i believe money and earning a good living would be a great start but then theres always someone who is going to eventually bring you down. i would love to have a stress free life but im doing good if i can go two days without stressing over something lol

If you were to be lucky enough to have figured out an easy technique for a happy life, then you are seriously under selling your idea at a penny per post :P