I heard this comment from a guy .....
By braided
@braided (698)
Canada
February 25, 2007 1:50pm CST
I was talking to some people one day and the discussion was of course was about relationships and how men are ... and this one male made the statement that he wasn't ever getting married because relationships tend to get boring after some time ... he then furthered that comment with ... "Even the person Ja Lo (Jennifer Lopez) is involved with will get tired of (he used and i quote) f**king her. Men is this a true? Whats your opinion?
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@beaniegdi (1964)
•
25 Feb 07
This guy just hasn't fallen in love yet. When it happens to him he will be blown away at how he feels and it will not have as much as he thinks to do with what goes on in bed.
Men can often separate their feelings so can go to bed with a woman without ever loving her or wanting a relationship with her. He thinks that is how he will feel about all women, but when the right one comes along he will love her and want children with her.
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@Bunsdk (242)
• Denmark
26 Feb 07
I would say as a man, he just doesnt have the creativity or nerve to actually keep things interesting.
If he gets bored thats pretty much his own fault. If you only watch that soccer game from 1986 with your favorite team winning that important game every day, youll get bored too. You can still watch soccer and watch the same team, but take deligth in the changes on the team, the tests the trials, the ups and downs, then youre pretty much gonna be entertained for as long as you want to be.
(I always try to simplify by making comparishions :P sorry for that, but it gets easier for myself if I had something to compare with when explained to me) :D
@missinghim (1339)
• United States
26 Feb 07
obviously he's never known what it's like to love someone. I don't think that all men feel this way... but I do believe that as a woman, it's our responsibility to keep them interested and things exciting.
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@nishanity (1650)
• India
26 Feb 07
in a way,insulting,dont u think?
well i think this guy hasnt had true love in his life yet!!
not all men are like that,i believe!
so dnt let this one get u down... trust me, once he does fall in love with his soulmate,he will be eating his words!
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@braided (698)
• Canada
26 Feb 07
I think its sad ... to think that men can't stay excited with one woman ... not so much insulting just sad ... if love is love and its real shouldnt a relationship grow? and get better and better ...instead of falling apart and becoming boring ... but it takes work .. maybe thats it .. no one wants to work at a relationship .. theres just too much to do in the day and everyone is exhausted from the pressures all around them to perform at their peak in the jobs etc etc etc ... that they just want love to happen ... well it doesnt just happen ... you got to keep it happening .... but then if he falls hard like you said then .... yea maybe, he will eat his words cause she may become bored with him .... smilin
@nrnotrare (631)
• United States
26 Feb 07
Hello braided.....
Don't let it get to you....not all men are like that. Two days ago my wife and I celebrated our 28th anniversary. Life only get boring if you have a short attention span.
Tom
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@Iccara (131)
• Australia
25 Feb 07
Maybe he is just trying to play the tough guy. Most males say that at some point in their life and usually its because they have never had love, been loved or just had a bad relationship. My friend said that after he broke up with his fiance. SHe left him. He was devestated saying he would just be with a different girl all the time and didnt want commitment. He has now found a lovely girl who he adores and they are doing great together.
I think that when the right girl comes along he will change his tune. Maybe he is embarressed and just trying to hide it.
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@rubypatson (1840)
• India
26 Feb 07
He is going to want something more at some point of his life then he will realise what it means to be married and to be loyal to that person, to love to care and the togetherness cannot be but missed by such people
@KetanGulati (579)
• India
26 Feb 07
Well, I must say this guy is still quite ammatuer and has not been able to develop his thinkning thoughts till now... and that is obvious...Does relationship means fu**king Oh please.... one who thinks and agrees to it deserve only my pity and nothing else... and why should he actually.... he is nt any good for that....poor guy needs top understand that when we marry someone , we are not draggin her to our bed legally... we are rather requesting her to come into our life to make it more sensible and meaningful.... I have my pity on that guy....may jesus bless his soul and give him wisdom to think realise and understand
@peter123456 (152)
• China
27 Feb 07
This man is mad !If a man only want to making love with different lady ,he is only like an animal .We should choose one to love for our whole life !
@FrancyDafne (2047)
• Italy
26 Feb 07
I think that every man is different from another.... Yes, Jennifer Lopez lives her relationship in this way, but what do we care of Jennifer Lopez? Are every person like her? So, many relationships tend to get boring after some time, and many others not. Infact it isn't a problem of "relationships", but of "human beings".
@Anakata2007 (1785)
• Canada
26 Feb 07
I'm not a man, but my opinion on this matter is that I knew many men (and women) who said this in their 20's and even early 30's. Now I'm in my late 30's and most of my friends are as well. All the people who said things like this either hadn't met the right person yet, or are really very lonely right now. The older you get, the harder it is to meet people who are single and/or normal. It's best to find someone to marry and love forever when youre in your early 30's in my honest opinion.
@braided (698)
• Canada
26 Feb 07
mmmm i dont know bout that damn i'm in my 50's and i meet men all the time ... not necessarily the right men but i meet them ... he was a bit of a partier if i remember correctly so, he may just not be the settling kind ... he wasnt at that moment when he said that ... havent seen him in a couple of years ...maybe hes changed his mind ...who knows ...smilin
@hsegam88 (8)
• India
26 Feb 07
Yeah Sure,,
relationships are upto an extent onli !!
if it xtendz more it getz bored,,
@inked4life (4224)
• United States
26 Feb 07
My guess is that the guy has probably never had a real serious relationship or been with someone he was truly in love with. I think his opinion would change pretty quickly if that happened.
@sunshinelady (7609)
• United States
26 Feb 07
If you ever listen to guys talk a lot of them look at it like that. But I have explained to guys that marriage is what you make of it. If it gets boring that is because you have not taken the time to keep the spark in marriage. My mom and dad was married for over fifty years and still would be if dad hadn't passed away. Their marriage was not boring. Mom was always doing something to show dad she appreciated him. She called herself Dad's Geisha Girl and she treated dad like she was. Not in a demeaning way but in that she would do things for him all the time. Leave little notes for him letting him know that she loved him. I would tell the guys this and they told me that was not the norm and that marriage sounds boring with having to be together with one partner for all of ones life. But I do believe once the love bug bites them their opinions will change.