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Oh no, my comment was not ment to be rude. I just find that often women are put into one large group and there are some of us who do dress like we respect ourselves and dont need to be whistled at to feel good about ourselves. LOL

We went to a restaurant once and the table needed to be cleaned before we were seated. The young girl bend over to clean the table and you could see parts of her body that did not need to be shown and her thong underpants. It was so sick. I have never been so embarased in my life at a restaurant. Didnt seem to bother her at all. YUCK

My question is why do SO MANY women dress so bad, not why do all women dress so bad. I am not talking about those of us who do dress modestly, only the ones who ALWAYS dress like that. When I put the subject of the discussion in, I meant for "SOME" to be next to women, sorry about that! I never intended to lump us all together, obviously I am a women and that would be pretty stupid of me to put us all in one catagory, LOL. I just tend to leave words out sometimes and then I get folks a bit confussed as to my intentions and then I have to explain what I was trying to say, LOL It does seem to be a fasion statement or something, but it is grossly sick and disgusting, and I have been trying for years to understand how women who do dress this way, can do it? Why do they have absolutely no respect for themselves? This subject drives me more batty every year, because this fasion gets worse and worse each year. Again sorry for the confusion.

True it is their decision, however that does not make it right to do so, nor does it mean that others should keep their mouth shut and not tell them how really horrible they really look to others. When a persons decision affects so many others, it is a bad decision and needs to be addressed. When I am out somewhere with my husband and a woman who made the decision to dress in next to nothing walks by and my husband turns and looks, then her decision just affected me, and that in MHO, makes it more than just her decision, it makes me uncomfortable, and sick to my stomach. Now don't get me wrong, I'm not going off on this because my husband looked at some woman dressed that way, that is not why at all. I'm not saying it hasn't happened in the past, but it has been a very long time. When it does happen though, my hubby only glances out of reaction more than anything, and then he quickly turns to me and comments on how much disrespect women have for themselves these days. Even though I know how hubby feels about women dressing that way, it still angers me beyond words when it happens, because I see how morally corrupt our Country really is, and it is truly a sad site to see. Most men cannot deal with the temptation of a woman who dresses provocatively, because of how men are. It is the women's responsibility to make sure she does not cause any man to stumble and fall because of how she is dressed. People need to stop having this "it's their decision" attitude, and start speaking out and letting others know that what they are doing is not acceptable to a lot of people. When a persons decision causes sin in another person, then that persons decision was a poor one and they need others to tell them so, otherwise they think it's okay, because it's their decision and that is all that matters.

I disagree with you. It is their decision and therefore since it is a free country, you cannot stop them from wearing what they wear. I choose not to dress that way because I don't like doing it. And the last time I checked, as long as a person is wearing clothing in public, it's quite ok for them to wear what they want. It is their decision..get over what others are doing and mind your business.

Exactly. It's your decision to have this discusion. It was my decision to answer this stupid thing then pay for it with your answer to my opinion.