I hate it when they do that!!
By cnergy_14
@cnergy_14 (28)
Philippines
February 25, 2007 4:31pm CST
Have you ever felt that you are forgotten or ignored by your family of relative? Have you ever felt that they don't wanna help you or they don't wanna get involve with your problems? What does realy family do anyways? Do they ignore them everytime you have a problem? I hate it when they do that. Specially when they do it to me. I don't know if they hate or what. It would be better if they tell me "I hate you" or even "I don't wanna help you, get out!!". What the F*#@!! Where are they now? somewhere? Busy? Now they'l going to tell me they are busy? Aftr what they have told me? That they'l going to help me? Aarrgghh.. You know what I've been thinking? I'm thinking when the time comes that they'l come to me and ask my help.. I will NOT help them. I will just IGNORE them like they do to me now. I'll let them feel what I felt when I was the one looking for them and asking for their help. Then I'll tell them "how does it feel like? You know, forgotten? Ignored? Helpless? Isn't that heartbreaking? Ignored by someone you know will help you?". Oh men, I can't wait to do that to them. From now on I will not look for them ans ask for help. Well, maybe I'll just wait for somebody to come and help me.
3 responses
@harrison1999 (70)
• United States
25 Feb 07
I'm sorry that you have experienced that. I too have a family that does that sometimes. For years I have had to just cry to my hubby when I didn't get invited to family functions, or was turned down when I asked for help. Just in the past year, my family has changed. Maybe I have proven myself to them or something, I don't know. Good Luck and God Bless.
@cnergy_14 (28)
• Philippines
26 Feb 07
You know Im encountering that kind of ignoring too. Im always and always until now not invited to some family gatherings and reunions. Well, I just tell myself that I have a lot of friends here to accompany me and I don't need them. Well, maybe.
@MaSunny (61)
• United States
25 Feb 07
What you're suffering could be categorized under poor family dynamics. I have suffered from this my entire childhood and adolescense and it had stunted my growth and gradual development into the adult that I am today. If they are constantly ignoring even with counseling and a free schedule,etc. I suggest you go above the influence and look elsewhere for help. There are free support groups out there and I regret that I can't name them off the top of my head. Also, make connections with the right people, associates and friends, that are only supportive and are good listeners and advice givers. School counselors, school pyschologists, or even a trusted teacher who's got spare time can lend a hand.
@cnergy_14 (28)
• Philippines
26 Feb 07
yah maybe i should do that too. but now iv been taking care of by my loyal lover. Im thankful she here with me. Thank you very much for the advice. :)
@raredog (743)
• Philippines
27 Feb 07
Maybe you have done something in your past that they can not forgive. You should give them the benefit of the doubt, after all they are your family. Or just maybe you have to ask for forgiveness before everythings return to normal. Just my opinion though. Good luck.
