Is it a sin to ignore your grandfather?
By knightfeith
@knightfeith (213)
Philippines
February 25, 2007 8:15pm CST
my grandfather is very old now... and all of us in my family usually ignore him because when you talk to him he won't stop until he falls asleep and he doesn't even know what he's talking about... this morning while i was walking on the street, i saw him and completely ignored him as if he was someone i do not know, i was so used on ignoring him that i also ignored him this morning on the street. i felt bad deep inside... it's sort of denying that he is my grandfather.. what can i do to correct this? is this act a sin to GOD?
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@quatelmon (955)
• United States
26 Feb 07
If he is incoherant and doesn't even know who you are half the time, I wouldn't worry about it. Besides, I wouldn't worry about sin and god and stuff like that. If you believe in that, and have lived a good life, everything will be fine in the end.
You should not ignor your grandfather from fear of god, but you should not ignore him because you should respect your elders, no matter how old and rambling. Because one day he will pass away, and although it may not be an annoyance to have to see him anymore, you will still miss him and wish you had spent more time with him. Good luck! And I wouldn't worry too much about it if you live a good life otherwise.
@knightfeith (213)
• Philippines
26 Feb 07
Thank you for your response... yes, you are right, he will eventually pass away.. and i'm sure i will miss him.. i will try my very best not to ignore him.. thnks for the advise =)
@lauriefnp (5109)
• United States
26 Feb 07
I am not very well versed on the Bible, so I can't say if it's a sin to God. However, I feel that it is wrong. He is your family, and he is an elderly man with health problems. He deserves the recognition and respect of his family. Even if he talks incessantly and you don't know what he is talking about, and even if he doesn't know what he's saying most of the time, you should have the respect to listen to him. On some level I believe that people like this know that they are being treated poorly. I always say that you should treat other people as you would want to be treated. Would you want to be old and all alone in the world, knowing that even your family was avoiding you and didn't want to bother with you? Spend some time with him. You don't know how many more chances you will have to make him happy.