Indian marriages

kathy, I don't know a better way to say this but your Indian guy is pulling a fast one. If he had a problem with marrying non Indians why start a relationship with one. I am not sure which part of the world you are from, and I don't know anything about your guy. Some Indian men marry the girl their parents choose, but like to have their fun as well. It is quite possible that your Indian guy is already married. Please remember I do not know anything about your guy, I am telling you what I know based on the fact that I am also an Indian.

Maybe it's like in religion, that you cannot be married unless you believe in the same God and your beliefs and ways are also the same.