How do you stop loving somebody??

China
February 26, 2007 3:10am CST
Grrr... so lets say... I have been in love with X for more than 1.5 years. We are so close, but only as friends. I hate that my feeling is not a friendship kind of feeling. It is LOVE. HUKZ.... I want to stop loving coz it makes me hurt... makes me jealous... But i cant stop loving. How do you stop loving somebody you love so much??
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• Philippines
26 Feb 07
if you're inlove with you ex for 1.5 years, me i think it was 2years before i gave up and let go...we still communicate with each other...i think the best way to do is admit to you ex that you still love him, if he rejects, then maybe its time to let go
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@charms88 (7538)
• Philippines
28 Feb 07
Ouch...its really tough to be in love when that someone didn't have any idea about it. We forget how to use our head. I think its time that you start giving hints to X about what you're feeling. You didn't mention if X is involve in another relationship though. If he is, then I suggest you minimize communicating with him or lay low for a while. Its not easy I know. But its a better cure then having to deal with the constant feelings of hurt and jealousy. Wish you luck!
• China
1 Mar 07
Exactly... so hard to let go of this feeling. No, he's not in a relationship. Okey, i'll try giving a hint but not sure though Thx ^^
@charms88 (7538)
• Philippines
1 Mar 07
Good to hear about that. But try to focus yourself on other things too. I had no better words to tell you how to deal with your feelings. Let's wait and see. Be happy!!!
@Starline (681)
• United States
10 Mar 07
you shouldn't give up (unless he is taken) try to come up with sneaky ways to make him fall for you. wear your best clothes when you see him and a perfume that works wonders.
@chinese99 (139)
• United States
26 Feb 07
Totally agreed with "arwinzilla ,there is no better way . I think you should give a try . REGARDS ,
• India
27 Feb 07
i dont think there is any way to stop luving some one whom u luv so much. i had been into it but tell u its tuf to get out of it once u r into itand i till date dont know how i cud pulled out of my love. maybe i cud manage it cos i didnt allowed myself to remain idol for months made my self work over n all so much that i cud cope with it
• China
2 Mar 07
good to talk with someone whi has been thru the same thing... Yepp, it is very very tuffff... Thx for ur response