love!!!!

I remembered those days when I went down to Singapore and see those two love birds who couldn't get their hands off each other. They only meet once in a few months, so the extra added affection was only natural. Those two were one of those couples that proved me wrong over my perception over long distances relationships are usually bound to failure. But now, the love boat is seemingly, sinking deeper and deeper. I wished I was there to help her out, but the best I could do is advice her to focus on her studies, give them both a chance to talk things through if the problems they are facing now are only temporary. When it comes to circumstances like these, there is nothing much anyone else can do to change things for the better, besides our own selves and/or our partner. I was her once. She never understood how I felt then, when I confided her my relationship problems. Yet, being my pillar of strength, she was always there to talk to me through it all. Now, she tells me how she finally understands how I felt then. When you love your partner whole heartedly, I can openly say, we all expect our partners to feel the same in return. However, when things do not turn out the way they should, we get disappointed, no doubt about that, but we look past it, we hold on.

If changed, yes. It's a social thing. When you live in a group, you change, you live beside a man change. It's inevitable. We are social beings in interaction. The problem is how you change. If you change as a compromise for each other, but actually you are not satisfied with the change is bad. One is to discover the other beautiful and well that is something and adopt it, and another to give up what you are. And if you love should not change, but only brings you in certain areas, to help you know yourself better. A man should find himself, to build as it is better for his personality, to find their own plans, fulfillment and happiness. Love should be just finding a man seeking the same things about point of view of the relationship, and then building plans, fulfillment and happiness that satisfy both.