The one whom you loved the most is the one you can't easily forgive.. :(
By aRiSdGrEaT
@aRiSdGrEaT (621)
Philippines
February 26, 2007 8:46am CST
this is really true.. Why is it that we cant easil forgive the one we used to love the most. But we find easy to forgive a friend who comiitted the biggest lie to you. Considering that the one you love the most had just done a little mistake, but you cant forgive him/her very easy..
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@Rexy_leigh (1189)
• Philippines
1 Mar 07
Being hurt by the one you love the most regardless of how small or big is the mistake he has done, still cuts the deepest. It could be because we are expecting them to be the last person to hurt us since you have promised to love each other dearly and would take extra care of each others feelings. Anyhow, I still convince myself to forgive him for whatever hurtful feelings he has given me, but mind you forgetting it is a lot harder to do. yeah, people say that once you have forgiven him you will just eventually forget what he did..but if he happens to do another mistake again, i bet you'd surely start recalling all the list of wrong things he's done and start associating them to the latest... am not sure if you also experience this, but I personally had.
@aRiSdGrEaT (621)
• Philippines
1 Mar 07
eventhough we forgive, but it is very hard to forget those things specially it is a bad thng.. and bad things are very difficult to forget than happy things. Yeah, i also experienced getting the weights and associating the lies and mistakes being committed and sometimes over and over.. it is so happen that we truely love the person and can't live without so we finally forgive over and over also. To forgetting though is a process also.
@maribel1218 (3085)
• Philippines
26 Feb 07
I can say when my husband comitted a mistake I can't forgive right away and it will depend entirely on how does the mistake weight to me and how it affects my married life
Bible tells us that we should forgive a thousand times and for me that was a sole basis to forgive my husband in due time for to forgive is a process and not abrupt decesion to make and it really tooks time to heal and wound and to pick up the broken pieces of trust.
Why it so hard to forgive someone you love? because you trust him a lot and you expected him to be honest and loyal and the least thing you expect on him is to commit a mistake that will deteriorate the relationship.
@aRiSdGrEaT (621)
• Philippines
1 Mar 07
true friend.. it is very hard to understand that one we trust most will do the unexpected thing to us.. it really hurts and find ourself hard to give back the trust
@gracey_celine (106)
• Philippines
2 Mar 07
The more you love that person the more hurt u've felt when he/she has done something that makes you feel bad that's why it's hard to forgive so as to forget when you've been hurt by the one you love the most.
@yanjiaren (9031)
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26 Feb 07
i always forgive the ones i love most..but it hurts more if they hurt me lol..that is the only difference..but i always end up forgiving them as i hate to have a bad atmosphere around the people i love..that is worse..
@aRiSdGrEaT (621)
• Philippines
26 Feb 07
It is nice to hear and how kind you are forgiving them easily... Yup it is kindha worse when you have an unfinished business of forgiveness to someone.. Maybe as long as the emotions and sincerety is there, we could forgive them but not that easily.. Beacuase we are used to love them and hoping that we won't be hurt that much.
@carlysle (271)
• Philippines
26 Feb 07
yes it is true... its always hardest to accept when the one you truly love and care about betrays you.. it always hurts the most because they are the people you trust and sometimes we expect too much of them that when even there mistakes are little we get hurt and disappointed.. :)
