How does relationship pull together?
@joey_matthews (8354)
February 26, 2007 9:45pm CST
How does relationship pull together?
Some reason I'm in a meaningful mood tonight and I wanted to share a few things about myself, as it's honestly helping to express myself in a more clearer way.
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Thinking awhile back, My relationship with my wife was great fun especially the first few weeks of meeting up. I know I took her for granted at times and thing's changed and those thing's which I thought was important rearranged. I loved chasing her, waiting to hear from her and things like that.
These aren't the things which pulled our relationship together because I was typical teen back then. It's how her parents tried to ruin it for us and all those things, which then I hated and I still do HATE them very much so. Although inside I'm smiling because all the pain they caused us both brought us closer and closer.
She's my rock, I honestly think my life couldn't be any better from this point I'm writing this and I wished those times I'm funny with her that I wasn't because she doesn't deserve it.
I've come to realize that really can pull relationships together and it's different for each of us. Having said this, do you care to share you own?
~Joey
Kudos!
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@LeeLow (116)
• Ireland
27 Feb 07
That was very sentimental, i'm sure your wife is just as happy as you are... I'm far from married but my b/f lives three and a half hours away (without traffic!!) and i think if we didn't have those little arguments and did see each other everyday our relationship wouldn't pull together and stay together the way we are! I thank those arguments! lol
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@joey_matthews (8354)
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27 Feb 07
Laugh out loud LeeLow!
Sounds like stitches friend! =)
Very sentimental, indeed you're right about that.
Arguments aren't all as bad as people think, although it's never good to just fight all the time. (I try not to) You both sound right for each other and it was nice to read your responses.
It put a smile of my face, especially the last line! laugh out loud. =)
Kudos,
~Joey
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@vicky_lane4987 (980)
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27 Feb 07
Thankfully you found the one for you, which is great...and i know how close you want Kate are. Anyway, I think the main thing that has made me and William so strong is that we live quiet far away from each other (3 buses), which sucks...but in a way i think it helps us, guess the missing each other all week helps or something? But another thing that has made us closer together is my family...they suck and hate that im growing up and i am in a serious relationship (21 months)...anyways, it sucks but until we get a place together or something we just have to put up with it.
@winterose (39887)
• Canada
27 Feb 07
well a good relationship will last through thick and thin that is for sure. The trouble with a lot of relationships is that they are good as long as good things happen but the minute some adversity shows up the relationship desolves. I think mine is secure, some times it infuriates me when my mate puts his kids ahead of me, but that doesn't create a big problem for us.
@rosie_123 (6113)
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27 Feb 07
Dear Joey, - I am glad that you are so happy with your wife, and I shouldn't feel bad about the times you have been funny with her...... everyone is "funny" with their loved ones sometimes, - it is human nature, and I'm sure your wife knows that you love her very much really, and she understands. I am lucky with my man too - he is a very strong person, he makes me feel safe, and secure all the time, and he makes me laugh so much too! I think humour is so important in a relationship.
