Is it possible to have a long distance relationship?

Philippines
February 26, 2007 9:59pm CST
I met this person through friendster. I just post there that I needed someone to love and this person responded. Since then we are exchanging e-mails and texts, I also call this person twice a week and the person is located in China while I am in the Philippines. I think I am in love with this person and the person responded. Is this poossible? Does this person really love me as much as I do?
6 responses
fujin1985
@fujin1985 (684)
• Philippines
27 Feb 07
Well, that really depends. If the two of you are serious with it, then work it out. My friend though was also involved in such kind of relationship, but the girl tricked my friend for having an actual boyfriend. It's really complicated, especially that you barely know the girl. It's really up to you to make the choice. Be careful.
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babyjane
@babyjane (1390)
• Philippines
27 Feb 07
Long distance relationship is possible. But you guys haven't met right? It was kinda hard. Just a friendly advice, don't trust a lot. Trusting a stranger could be dangerous.
lynninky
@lynninky (491)
• United States
27 Feb 07
i think it can if you both want it to work. it will be hard on both of your emotions.make sure you stay in touch, for a lot of people weekends for most lonely.plan live cam dates on the weekend were you both can see each other while you talk.it will be a good chanfe form the emails and texts. make sure this person is in love with you as well. so you do not get hurt..
ajinomoto23
@ajinomoto23 (1057)
• Philippines
27 Feb 07
I just heard a gossip. My neighbor had a friend from the Friendster from Malaysia, he came to the Philippines to visit his friend, most probably proposing a marriage. The girl is still very young. He went back to Malaysia, and gave the girl 50,000 pesos. That is not bad.
Aurone
@Aurone (4755)
• United States
27 Feb 07
I couldn't do a long distance relationship. I need to be held and touched so long distance just wouldn't work for me.
deepforestx
@deepforestx (102)
• India
27 Feb 07
no i dont think so... once I read a book where the father had stayed in a diff city to earn more.. when he retires and comes back... its diff for him to adjust and so is it for the other family members... finally he leaves for good of both... relation is made of interactions and even with modern technology bringing people closer its diff... i think !!!