My ex is my co-worker and he thinks i don't exist.
By rohany1982
@rohany1982 (22)
Philippines
February 26, 2007 10:43pm CST
I have been working with ths company for almost a year . My ex, though i'm aware that he works for the same company but on totally different department and different shifts. He is happily married (i guess) to the woman who stole him from me.
Let's start from the beginning.... I was happily in love with him when 1 day I got a text message from a woman saying if he is coming over. SO I called the number and the woman who I spoke to happily said that she is just a friend and was telling me how much my boyfriend loves me. She befriended me and until one day my boyfriend stopped seeing me. He did not show up and would never answer my calls. Then I talked to his parents and they told me that he is seeing someone else. I did not believed at first because he got me pregnant only that I had a miscarriage. I told them that i will only believed what they said if he will be the one to tell me.
So a month later, after i cut my wrist attempting to kill myself i'm still alive and he knew what happened to me. He came to me after a month, but his official gf was that girl. So one day, to stop the foolishness out of myself. I told the girl to take care of him and to do her best so the guy will stop coming back to me. Then she got pregnant and they live happily ever after.
Until one day, at work. We met in cafeteria. He would not even say hi to me. And his wife has been texting me asking how i was. Is that fair? i'm happily living with my boyfriend of over 1 year with his parents and there they are messing up with me.
3 responses
@mistym (18)
• United States
27 Feb 07
I can help you on this one...having had some relationships go bad over the years from work....Let me shed some light on this situation.
#1) He doesn't care about you. He is a slime covered toad stool for being so.
#2) Nothing you do will make him care for you. He doesn't believe he owes you anything. Most self-righeous prideful jerks don't ever think they did anything wrong.
#3) Be the mature one--tell the wife to stop contacting you. She is the one who now has to deal with a person who has a cheating personality.
4) Be grateful you didn't have any kids with the scoundrel.
5)Ignore him, his wife, and his kid(s). You are not an item. You say you have a boyfriend? Focus on that relationship.
6) Work is work. DO your work. If you feel you didn't do anything wrong, hold your head high. No revenge.
7) Don't ever try anything like harming yourself ever again. NO MAN is EVER worth that.
Hope that helps.
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@pilbara (1436)
• Australia
27 Feb 07
It sounds like your ex is a gutless coward, not to break up with you to your face, but maybe he was worried about how you would react, either way it is still cruel.
With regard to the woman, she was certainly playing games, but maybe part of her friendship is real and she cares enough to know how you are?
It has to be tough for both of you to be working at the same place and maybe him ignoring you is his way of coping, if he does acknowledge you then maybe he might also have to acknowledge what happened, or more likely he doesn't want any kind of situation at work that could result in job loss.
Since you're happy with your boyfriend, forget them, if you can block her texts and forget about them.
@grandkids08 (246)
• United States
27 Feb 07
It seems that he doesnt want anything more to do with you. Which could be a good thing because there a lot of other ppl out there. My ex wont talk to me either, i dont know if hes scared to or feels quilty. I get along great with his wife and we even go out to dinner hes wife and I.. We do not talk about him, her and i plan birthday parties for the kids my ex and i have. He is never involved in it. When i have a party for the kids she always comes over with out him. We have been very good friends. It is weird but its great tomhave a good friend that worries about my children.
