Is there really a Santa Claus?
By eeseharden
@eeseharden (603)
United States
February 26, 2007 11:49pm CST
This is a question that I am not ready for. My children (almost 3, almost 7, and 8) understand the true meaning of Christmas completely. I still enjoy all the magic surrounding celebrating Christmas with Santa Claus and watching my children glow with excitement. So here's my question...
OK moms and dads out there...how do you answer or how did you answer this question? Mama or Daddy, is there really a Santa Claus? Do you remember when you first discovered there was no Santa?...or do you still believe???
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5 responses
@ladymoonstone143 (1507)
• United States
27 Feb 07
After Christmas when all the Santa stuff and other things that is related to Christmas were all gone, our toddler asked us where did Santa go. Our answer is in the North Pole to make more presents for her and the little boys and girls next Christmas.
As long as she still believes in it, we will not correct her. When the right time comes, she will know. For now, we let her enjoy what she is, as a child and the magic of childhood.
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@eeseharden (603)
• United States
27 Feb 07
I agree completely. Thank you so much for this thought and continuing sharing the magic of childhood.
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@syndibee (799)
• United States
27 Feb 07
i've raised 2 children and have my third just starting out :)
yes we celebrated with santa claus, easter bunny, tooth fairy and we will again.
yes there is a real santa claus. his name was saint nicholas and he went around repairing items for families and was a very generous man. there are wonderful books explaining the origins of santa claus to children and the myth and magic. when it comes time to tell them the truth about santa i always made sure that my kids new that i truely do believe in santa claus, just like i believe my gramma smiles down from heaven at me. now the easter bunny is a different story. i actually don't know the origins of such a silly tradition but i still had fun with it. i just told the story of santa claus and the easter bunny belief just tended to subside at the same time. it's important for children to have good imaginations and what better way to teach them this than to tell them stories :)
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@eeseharden (603)
• United States
27 Feb 07
I truly appreciate your response to this discussion. I like the way you think as well. I hadn't thought of it that way. I guess telling made-up bedtime stories could also be considered a great big lie as well. I'm glad you put it into perspective for me.
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@ArsonCuff (3114)
• United States
27 Feb 07
I never understood why parents tell their kids some fat guy sneaks into the house and leaves things in the first place....why the lies?...I think such things are actually negative fr kids to belive in...pre-brain washing them for their future programming by society and mass media/politics/religion
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@eeseharden (603)
• United States
27 Feb 07
Did you grow up never doing any of these things? Are you a religious person? How many children do you have? If you have children, will then never celebrate Christmas with a tree or gifts? What will you tell them? I don't believe that it's wrong. I don't feel that I am pre-brainwashing them. Will they also never celebrate Easter by having Easter baskets and colored eggs? Will you never let them believe in anything that isn't a hard fact? I'm not trying to argue with you...just to understand.
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@byfaithonly (10698)
• United States
27 Feb 07
whew bunch here - No, I don't believe in Santa, hello, I'm a 51 year old mother of 4 I've been playing Santa for over 30 years. With 4 kids and 15 years between the youngest and oldest our family has had a million and one "is there a Santa" stories - older ones knowing the truth but having to pretend for the sake of the younger ones, older ones letting the secret out, oh and lets not forget the youngest writing letters to Santa - and mailing them, needless to say the oldest (20+ at the time)was surprised when he got a letter back from Santa - he had asked for a blonde but Santa said he may want to concider a redhead, none of us new it but the youngest had mailed the older ones 'joke' letter and funny thing is our mail lady was not a blonde but he got a letter from someone.
@eeseharden (603)
• United States
27 Feb 07
That is a funny story. I still believe in the magic of Christmas. We play Santa as well. But our children know that we are really celebrating the "spirit of Christmas"...the sharing and giving and the joy and love, etc. They also most importantly know what the real reason for the Christmas season is...the birth of Jesus.
@mssnow (9484)
• United States
12 Mar 07
What I told my children was yes there is a Santa but he is in peoples hearts. There is not a real person called Santa. hes real just not a person.That is what I believe as well. i think anyone who gives is Santa Claus. They reflect the true meaning of the word. If you have never done so read a copy of "yes Virginia there is a Santa Claus. Its great. You dont have to tell them anything until they ask. But when they ask, then tell them. Oh and I will always believe :)
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@eeseharden (603)
• United States
3 Apr 07
I like the way you think mssnow. I feel the same way. I tell mine that he exists in their hearts. I like believing he is real myself.