Is it ok to get married to a lady five older than you?

It depends on the maturity level of the younger man. If you have enough in common and are truly in love, 5 years should not make a difference.

i dont know from which country you are. this is a good topic for debate and it will take long enough to discuss this topic. basically this depends upon person to person, it is our brain who likes and dislikes. if yuo are in love with a older female then you can go ahead. age does not matter if the difference is not too big , otherwise there will be a great difference in thinking and life style which may interfere the relationship.

it is very ok!...if you love her, then age doesnt matter anymore!...age is not important in marriage!...the more importan is the feelings and emotions towards that person!...

Hi, My wife is 12 years older than I am and we have been married for 9 years now and we are very happy. I wouldnt consider it bad luck if you two love each other why would five years stop you.

Married basic is love much each other. Its free to get your sopul mate friend...

Dear Bro Bmawanda Love doesn't have any relation with Bad omen. Trust me. if you really love her why do u bother thinking about bad omen? is your love not big enough to take any risk lies in front of you? Have faith in your love brother. according to chinese people like me. the best age differences is the man should be 4 years older than the woman. because they say it is balance like 4 legged table. once again please think about your love. is your love big enough? or your ego is bigger than your love? i hope that you'll have a brighter future with her all the best for you regards Kei

will in my culture theres nothing wrong with the age as long as you in love to each other and ready to have a family theres no big deal for us here...

Where I live, it's more common for younger women to marry older men, but the reverse is happening more often these days. I don't think there's anything wrong with it either way, as long as the two people involved are happy. I don't think there is a perfect age difference. I know people who are the same age that are happy together, and I also know people who are ten or more years apart that are happy. It all depends on the maturity levels and personalities of the people involved. My husband and I are pretty close in age (4 years difference) compared to a lot of the other people I dated before him. When I was very young I dated people older than me, and it was a bad decision, because it led me into some situations I wasn't ready for. However, I think once you're an adult it doesn't make as big a difference.

I am a female, but I will respond to this discussion just the same. I don't believe in omens, especially this one about marrying a woman older than you. The success of a marriagelies in the compatibility of the 2 partners. It doesn't matter who is older. What's important is that both persons love and understand each other well. They must also be ready to commit their life fully for each other.