Do You Have Family That Gossips About You?

OMG you have a family like that also!!! i thought i was the only one. i found that the only person i can trust is my sister and my brother. My sister because she knows how the family is and we have each others back, and my brother well because he and my mom do not talk so he i know he will not be telling the family what is going on in my life, but everyone else forget it. even my mom, i have been sick for 2 weeks now and my cousin that i have not talked to since like thanksgiving out of the blue texts messages me and says that she hopes i feel better, i am like how did you find out and she was like oh i called you mom for a favor and she told me. Unbelievable, if i wanted people to know i was sick i just tell them. this wasn't the only thing but the other things take too long to explain.

Hahhahh.... that typical of a close knit family. We dont gossip actually, we discussed our family matter with each other. I have a very big family, 12 siblings. Normally it is hard to inform everyone at one time or others due our other commitment in life. So what I normally do is to inform one of my sis on certain issue. She is a homemaker and have plenty of time to start calling my other siblings. Of course, we gossip in the course of passing the information. I knew they gossip about me a lot, about my character and about my love for travelling. But heck care, I dont mind being gossiped by my own flesh and blood, cause I think they are thinking of me more often, so in reality they actually care about me even they don't mention that.

This happens to me all the time. I have two sisters, a grandma and a mom. If I tell one person something the next thing I know the phone is ringing "what happened why did you say blah blah" Over the years I have learned that if I need to grip about somebody in my family (you know just let off steam) I complain to my close friend or perhaps one of my online groups. Because I know if I say anything to the family it will be repeated to everyone in 20mins

I have an aunt who gossips a lot. And the worst she's done to me is tell everybody that I demanded or forced my husband to marry me. I got so angry with her. She also said that I called her "pest" when in fact, she was the one who called me that name. Until now, we haven't patch things up.

Family will be family, meaning you love'm but sometimes you just sense rudeness and frankness all at the same time. One day I was talking to one of two brothers I have. The conversation was about stopping by his house and surprising his daughters, snice it was a while that I had. They are 6 years old and the other one three. Well needless to say I could not make it the day I said I would, due to other issues. Then one day, when I final did stop by, The 6 year old saids to me. Uncle, your not going to do what my other uncle does, only see us twice a year? On our Brithday and Christmas. I said no sweety to the 6 year old, I assure you I will see you more than that. Then the 6 year old saids, good, only my other uncle can do that, he promised me a horse from is farm for me to ride. I looked down at her and said, I can only promise to play with you and your sister a lot more than your other uncle will. She said...daddy said, now that you dont work in bartlett, you don't work as hard as my daddy does, so you now have much more time and really need to play with us more. I hope in time, things do get better for the uncle that doen't work, Me. She is only 6 years old. Daddy is just a little older.(lol).