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@wendy82 (437)
United States
February 27, 2007 3:11pm CST
Do you think it is okay for a boyfriend and girlfriend to work at the same place?
10 responses
@coolsid2007 (1030)
• India
27 Feb 07
I dont see much of a problem there!! i mean .. it could be fun provided that the couple knows how to behave professionally .... also that it can help the personal life grow too... if they sail on the same boat...and they share open mindedness towards eachothers progress
@wendy82 (437)
• United States
27 Feb 07
That is very true also... But what happens if that doesnt work and they break up. How would you be able to face on another?
• India
28 Feb 07
you always have a particular approach towards life... something its worth trying ...considering it might work... i always think it in that manner... instead of it might not work... First of all for me as a couple its important to adjust in any circumstances instead of wanting to be in a circumstances where you always feel comfortable in!! ... there can be many ifs and buts in life ... but its worth taking a risk i guess ... its only matter of some years spending in doing that you might never be able to spend it in similar way otherwise ... you might or not succeed... either ways you atleast have that bit of an experience it also depends on WOULD YOU CHERISH THOSE YEARS?... or WOULD YOU REPENT MORE? it alsl depends on what is more important to you... a CRAVING TO DO BETTER ALWAYS or a SATISFACTION BY NOT CRAVING TO DO ANYTHING RISKY ...
@kryacek (72)
• Singapore
28 Feb 07
Hmm.. I don't think so.. it may seem alright but I have this funny feeling that somehow someday you'll ended up messing into each others stuffs and much to the detriment of the office and the relationship as well.
@wendy82 (437)
• United States
28 Feb 07
Very true and yet what happens if you all decided to get into a fight or arguement and you all break up.
@multisubj (451)
• India
7 Jul 07
Saves travel expenses. Planned coherence in going to and returning from the office. Good.
@PoeTalker (715)
• United States
27 Feb 07
Yep, so long as they work in different divisions. If you are working side by side you will learn very quickly that it doesn't work out to well. But if your a receptionist and hes a salesman you will rarely deal with eachother.
@wendy82 (437)
• United States
27 Feb 07
Very true but what if you work in a restaurant. But sometime the girl and guy have suggestive to get the tips.
• Malaysia
4 Jul 07
yeah, as long as they're working on different project and different departments and don't interfere with each other! coz there might be a conflict of interest or they might get into an argument or something hehe...
@bluishrose (2289)
• Philippines
4 Jul 07
I think its okay as long as both know how to draw the line from personal stuff to the work. Specially if they have fights they should not bring along with them at the workplace. If you look on the positive side of it, working in the same place helps in strengthening the relationship. Infidelity lessens because they are always together, and they can be the best of friends.
• United States
1 Mar 07
I think it comes down to how much you both can tolerate eachother. I know personally I don't think I would be able to work with my girlfriend because as things become common like our time together it may lose it's zeal. Then our time together may not feel so special.
@Rexy_leigh (1189)
• Philippines
28 Feb 07
I don't see anything wrong with couples working in the same company, provided they are in different departments or divisions and don't get to see each other like almost every minute...and of course, they also need to know how to separate their personal life from work..they need to be professional while at work... :)
@kryacek (72)
• Singapore
28 Feb 07
Hmm.. I don't think so.. it may seem alright but I have this funny feeling that somehow someday you'll ended up messing into each others stuffs and much to the detriment of the office and the relationship as well. Yours, William http://www.InternetMarketingBiz.com http://www.Portal-Success.com http://www.BizSecretsOnline.com
@maehan (1439)
• United States
4 Jul 07
It is ok as long as draw a line between work and personal.