Afer an argumet, how to make my girlfriend forgive my fault?
By dreamhere
@dreamhere (71)
China
5 responses
@rusty2rusty (6763)
• Defiance, Ohio
28 Feb 07
I hate to tell you dude. But your girl will never forget it was your fault. Depending on what you did. She may forgive you. But she will never forget. Women never forget when it is not their fault.
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@sunshinelady (7609)
• United States
28 Feb 07
dreamhere,
Yes, that is true. My husband and I have been married for 33 years and he did something to me after we had been married about 10 years and I have forgiven him but I have not been able to forget what he did. So yes rusty2rusty is right. Most women can not forget but I am sure there probably are a few that can. I am not one of those.
@crazy_me (588)
• Philippines
28 Feb 07
If you really love her and you are truly sorry for what you did that broke her heart, then talk to her. If she does not want to talk to you, go to her place everyday until she finally speaks to you. If she still loves you, she will find it in her her heart to forgive you if she sees your sincerity.
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@dreamhere (71)
• China
28 Feb 07
Thank you for your advice, I'll do everythig to save my love
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@sunshinelady (7609)
• United States
28 Feb 07
Two weeks is a long time to go after hurting someones heart. A certain amount of time would be fine to give her time to calm down or think things through. It is important that you try to talk to her and explain to her why you did what you did. How long have you two been together? Has she been hurt this way in the past by you? Those two questions will depend on how willing she is to forgive you.
@sunshinelady (7609)
• United States
28 Feb 07
dreamhere----the road to mending someones heart is never easy. She is crying so that means she is hurt deeply. It would be a shame for you to to split up over this. The most and I can not stress enough most important thing is a relationship is communication. Set up a time where both of you can sit down and talk it out. There is nothing better to get a situation worked out than communication. Keep trying until you two have at the very least talked about it. You two may still split but at least you will have known that you tried to make amends with all your heart. I will pray for you two and hope that you can come to some kind to understanding.
@sunshinelady (7609)
• United States
28 Feb 07
Drinking with your friends is not solving the problem but compounding it. Go to her and tell her you are sorry and that you wish to talk with her about it.
@dreamhere (71)
• China
28 Feb 07
We've been together for more than one year,I'm her first boyfriend,so is her. You know, the first experience of love is very important in one's life, I never lose heart but now I really have no idea to get her heart recover from the hurt. Some of her roommates told me she has cried 3 times in recent 2 weeks, that makes me feel awful. Drunk too much with my friends solve nothing but.... please give me some useful advise, I need help, I don't wanna lose her and I think she must have the same idea but.. Oh my god,so many but!
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@zlzlkkzl (45)
• China
2 Mar 07
well, maybe she will not forget that if you really hurt her. but the love will push her to forgive you. as a female, i advice you to think over that whether you love her. if the answer is yes, then don`t hesitate to communicate with her. tell her how deep you love her and you are really sorry for you behavior. keep silent for too long will affect your love. now she is looing forward to you. best wishes.
