My best friend is in love with my husband?
By xelissa
@xelissa (776)
New Zealand
February 27, 2007 11:01pm CST
Yesterday, my husband said that my best friend confessed to my husband the she was in love with him and tried to crack onto him. He said he didn't feel the same way and walked away, and then told me what happen. I saw some clues (flirting, after work drinks, etc) but I never thought it was personal. Do you think she will try to take my husband? What am I supposed to do in this situation? How am I supposed to face her after what she's said?
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8 responses
@raimavillanueva (37)
• Australia
28 Feb 07
Go find yourself a new bestfriend now...If she were really your friend, she didnt have to ponder her feelings for your husband. The first time she realised she's falling inlove with your man, she should've prevented it from getting deeper. Dont hesitate, you have the right to confront any woman who tries to steal your husband even if it means your best friend.
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@heartwick (26)
• Philippines
28 Feb 07
confront your bestfriend and face the reality that you'll be loosing her after that...anyway,she's not a real bestfriend...if thats the case.
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@cherriemae (3370)
• Philippines
23 Apr 07
that's a flirt girl..is she sick? she's not your true friend because of her confession..she need not to confess it to your husband because it might give a gap on you..you need to confront her if what really she feels to your husband, that she needs a place where she is intented for..also talk to your husband, so that things will go clear between you..good luck
@joby_09 (498)
• Philippines
28 Feb 07
Talk to your bestfriend. Confirm from her if she's really in loved with your husband. If she denies it, don't brag what your husband told you. The next step would be to talk to your husband and ask the things that you want to know. Also, be observant enough. You can watch over your husband but don't make him feel that you're tying him up.
@PurpleTeddyBear (6685)
• Canada
25 Apr 07
Well, it seems to me that your hubby passed the test with flying colours by telling your friend that he wasn't interested and walking away. Your best friend however failed very badly. She couldn't have been your best friend to begin with if she is going to do those kinds of things behind your back. Kind of makes you wonder what else she has done to you. If I were you I would confront your best friend and see what she has to say about it! Maybe she will tell you the truth and show remorse, but if she lies or doesn't act very upset then I would be questioning our friendship.
@earth2jacq (1502)
• Philippines
28 Feb 07
I would definitely confront her. Flirting, after work drinks...think about this. This girl have something else in mind than being your friend. What kind of person is this, she is willing to jeopardize your friendship just so she could get the man she wants.It's better to let her know that you know her dirty little secret because from this moment on you better watch your back. It is good that your husband told you and that he is loyal to you so don't take that for granted. Love him even more so that he will not have any reason to philander somewhere else.
@catch_me (930)
• India
28 Feb 07
hey there......i am not married, nor have i been, so it may be hard for me to say what's best! but it seems to me that you have to think of yourself in this situation. do you really want to be with a friend that is capable of cheating and has fallen out of love with your hisband? you certainly know him better than me, but always remember that you deserve to be happy, and you deserve to be in a loving/trusting relationship. if you decide to ask her to leave your husband, dnt allow anymore her in your house.... i hope this helps a little and i wish you all the best!