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@webeishere (36313)
United States
February 27, 2007 11:53pm CST
I am seeking to hear from members here about any experiences they've had on the internet in general with friends. I especially would like to hear stories of traveling near or far to meet a friend you know here on the internet. I think this will be a very good discussion. So I'll relate a couple of my travel excursions to meet internet friends. First off I have AOL as my ISP. I'm also an alcoholic so I visit these 2 sights often..http://aa.org/en_information_aa.cfm & http://www.sober.com/ On AOL they have chat rooms in various topics & areas. One is BillW rooms which are for mostly not just alcoholics though. I visit them often. I'v made friends with many there also. After chatting with a man I know as Ron for a couple years I asked about his AA clubs meeting schedule. Well I shocked him as I said I was leaving right away to drive from Minneapolis to Milwaukee to meet him for a meeting at AA. I had a blast & now we both travel back & forth to go to each others AA clubs. Then theres a world AA convention held every 5 years. We had it awhile back here in Minnesota. I went there to have a good 4 days. Walking around I spotted a group from New Hampshire. Lo & behold I met a few people in that group which I chat with online also. We stay in touch a lot. I've also met other people from other chat rooms near me. I've driven as far as New Orleans (20 hrs) to meeet someone I'd chatted with for a few years also. Anyhow thats a short (LOL) description of a couple of my traveling to meet friends from the internet. Let's hear yours please? Happy Postings from Grandpa Bob.
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@blackbriar (9076)
• United States
8 Mar 07
Hiya Grandpa Bob! I've made alot of friends on the net, mostly thru pogo.com but only actually met 2. My 1st meeting was when my g/f from Penn. drove here to stay for a week in our house. She was nervous about staying here cause she always stayed in a hotel when she met other online friends but she got over it pretty quick when she got here and my daughter flew off the bus right into her arms for a huge hug. My daughter, who had no idea my g/f was coming, knew who she was by the pictures she sent thru email and her voice from talking to her on the phone. Her visit was cut short cause her asthma was acting up and she was worried she would go into a full blown attack so far from her doctor. Still, it was fun while she was here. Now she lives in FL so harder to meet up again. I'm hoping next year we will be able to take a long needed 2wk vacation and drive down to see her again. My 2nd meeting was with another g/f in WI. We drove up to her place for new years couple years ago. Another fun meeting. She is leary of dogs cause she was attacked by a Lab long time ago but agreed to let me bring Shady..bless his loving soul... and fell in love with him instantly. She cried when I called last Aug. and told her he was ready to leave this world. Her and her fiance came down last spring for our daughter's 8th b-day and enjoyed her softball game that weekend. That's when she met Domingo. Once he approved of her, she couldn't keep him off her lap.lol Lil stinker even manuvered his way between them during the nite and shoved them both off the bed. lol It was great having them down. It was a nice sunny day and we made good use of the grill after my daughter's game then the guys went fishing while we walked down the street to the quiet country bar for a few drinks. Came home and enjoyed the rest of the day till the guys got home. Very relaxing and hope we can do it again this spring. Beginning of April is our daughter's spring break so we will be heading back up there to spend the weekend with them. Since it will be warmer (hopefully), we will be able to do more. It was freezing cold that new years and we didn't go anywhere. Anyways, I'd better stop rambling or I'll never get to your other posts. lol tc and have a great day, Grandpa Bob. :-)
@webeishere (36313)
• United States
8 Mar 07
Why stop rambling? I tend to babble a lot here myself. Most my myLot friends love my babbling. (I hope) HAHAHA! Well seems there may be another person I meet from online in the near future. Later and thanks for the great fact filled response from you. HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!
@liranlgo (5752)
• Israel
1 Mar 07
well theres an interesting one for you webei i have a friend that has been chetting with someone in australia for a few months and then she took the plane from israel to australia to meet that guy (20 hours of plane flight) that is crazy isnt it?:)
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@webeishere (36313)
• United States
1 Mar 07
Actually it isn't crazy. I think it's great. Like I stated I drove 9 hours on a sudden urge was all. No plan or anything. I thought I'm going threre & I went. Happy postings from grandpa Bob.
@jsgrand0 (246)
• United States
28 Feb 07
I don't meet people over the internet anymore, although I had met a couple people in the past. In fact, I met my husband online. You just have to be careful and definitely meet in public places and such. The internet can be a great way to meet new people with common interests and it's alot of fun!
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@webeishere (36313)
• United States
28 Feb 07
have to be smart & meet in public. Anyhow I'm glad to read your response as well. Thanks a lot & have a blast here online & on myLot. I sure do. Happy postings from grandpa Bob
• Canada
1 Mar 07
Lets see, I have travelled from the UK to the Republic of Ireland in the name of internet friendship, and I've travelled from the UK to Canada in the name of love that first blossomed online. Whilst living in Canada, myself and my partner also travelled for 8 hours to go meet with someone that we're both very close to. She's a friend that we met online also, and we're all close to her. She's like family to us, and to her son we are Aunt and Uncle. We try to visit her once a year because it's a VERY long journey (this year we're headed up for Easter) and we always have a total blast. It's amazing how many wonderful people you can meet online. When I get married next year, many of our "Internet friends" are coming along to help us celebrate. It's going to be a huge event with people from Canada, the States, the UK, Holland, Ireland, and Australia in attendance. It's wonderful that so many people will be helping us celebrate and we all have one thing in common. We met online.
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@webeishere (36313)
• United States
1 Mar 07
There are many opportunities for great people to get togather here. I love my internet & would be lost without it. Happy postings from grandpa Bob
@tinam13 (839)
• United States
28 Feb 07
hi...i dont meet ppl from the internet. i have only been in a chatroom once and it was sick. i go on myspace, and i leave comments and stuff to the friends i have in real life. like i know them from school and everthing. i dont think its safe to meet ppl from the internet. be careful, u might think these ppl are all like u but one might be crazy. the reason i dont meet ppl is bc its not safe, have u heard of all the horror stories about that kinda stuff. "man set up a casual meeting with someone he'd met online, and found cut up in a million pieces" thats not true, but it could happen. good luck.
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@webeishere (36313)
• United States
28 Feb 07
Thanks for this response. All are appreciated. I've yet to run into a "bad" or "sicko" type yet in all my years of being online. I've met a lot of "crazies" is all. They type that seemed to have forgotten their meds. or something. HAHAHA. J/K. You know what I mean I hope. I am always careful when I do meet people. It's always in a crowded puclic place usually near some Government place. I even once met a man that I'd chatted with for a few years at his local Police Departments Parking lot. Now tell me that isnt safe. It was a smaller town where the lot was in the front of the building with windows right there. HAHAHA. Thanks again. Happy postings from grandpa Bob.
@AndiCat (325)
• United States
28 Feb 07
I frequent a mystery shopping message board with quite a few fellow Floridians as members. Although one of them threatened - LOL - to come watch one of my clogging shows last March, she didn't make it. I've never met anyone I've befriended online, but I think it would be awesome to.
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@webeishere (36313)
• United States
28 Feb 07
Who knows what will happen. Have fun here & remember, Happy postings from grandpa Bob.
@rainbow (6761)
28 Feb 07
Hi Grandpa Bob, hope you are having a fun day! I have some good friends - from mylot as its almost the only place I ever go, and a friend I met at about.com ages ago. My closest friends on the net all talk to me by e-mail or IM, sometimes we call one another on the phone or send one another presents through the post. p of friends that can support one another and understand the things in your life too.
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@webeishere (36313)
• United States
28 Feb 07
Good to hear this. I've many good friends from various areas of the countyr and the internet as well. I love them deatly. Thanks for the response. Happy postings from Grandpa Bob.
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
28 Feb 07
Well, back on the 14th of this month, I met one of my friends here in myLot, and we shared Business ideas and such since we both do online Businesses, and then there is some people I still keep in contact with that I met like 5-6 yrs. ago with another online Business I do which was quite Fun. I also have plans to meet one of my Best friends I met in a TalkCity game room like 9 yrs. ago in September, if everything goes well. This should be a lot of Fun as well. I am totally looking forward to it. Congratulations on the Sobriety. I have 10 1/2 yrs. so I know Life is good when you are Sober.
@webeishere (36313)
• United States
28 Feb 07
Firts off GRATS on the sober life. Thanks for a great response also. I love seeing & reading ones that give a bit more detail. I try to do that even with my comments. But thanks agauin good luck with the meeting of MORE internet buddies. Happy postings from Grandpa Bob.
@mnflower (1299)
• United States
28 Feb 07
great discussion topic..I have alot of friends on the internet I am not big on chatrooms but do have alot of messengers and have met alot of fun people here on line;;;..About 7 years ago I met a man online and we spent alot of time chatting both on line then it went to talking on the phone..I eventually moved 700 miles to spend two weeks with him and then decided to come and move to where he was from...This relationship lasted a couple years and we ended it but we still are good friends and we met in a very public place at first and to insure my safety. I then met my now recent man on line also and we have been together now for about 5 years he is the most loving man anyone could dream of and we both spend alot of time on the internet and make sure that both of us still stay in contact with the past friends that we have made..we do have some mutual friends in idaho and have recently planned a vacation to meet up with them and another couple from around that area so am looking forward to that think that it will be great fun.
@webeishere (36313)
• United States
28 Feb 07
Very nice response.I've ran into my share of pure idiots though meeting them HAHAHAHA. That's a whole new topic. But thanks for the great response. Im going to request friends as soon as I get time to drop by your page. Again, thanks. Happy postings from Grandpa Bob.
@ricknkae (1721)
• United States
28 Feb 07
How far did I travel to meet someone I had met online ? I crossed an ocean ! And now we are happily married and we got a wonderful 4 months old son ! And I really don't regret it ... he is such a wonderful man ... evethough my relatives didn't really appreiate seeing me go that far ... they now got used to it and thanks to VoIP, I can call my parents - and all my family - in France at no extra cost ! - it is included in my monthly fee ! - so I talk to my mum even more than when I was leaving in France ... and she is planning to come and visit us this summer to meet her grandson ...Ok enough with my life ! Everybody else, your turn .... And thenk you for that great topic
@webeishere (36313)
• United States
28 Feb 07
You're very welcomed. It's surprising how many great stories I;ve heard along this line. Not too many here on myLot yet though. Thats why I started this discussion. To hear more internet love/friendship connections. It all has to do with the wording of the subject matter is it. Anyhow thanks again & grats on the wonderful internet connected marriage. I guess for you 2 it was indeed the WORLD WIDE WEB. Happy postings from grandpa Bob.
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• Philippines
1 Mar 07
hi! i'm also chatting to many but haven't travel yet coz it will cost too much and time consuming!!
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@jenny19 (66)
• China
28 Feb 07
wellcome to mylot,Grandpa Bob i have never met a internet friend ,cuz its not safe .in china, some people have not good attemption on the internet,of course not all the people. so its a rash thing to meet a stranger
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@webeishere (36313)
• United States
28 Feb 07
I've met a great amount of good people from the imterner. only a few bad ones. We have the sick ones here also that don't have good intentions. But it's great to hear you keep yourself safe. Happy postings from Grandpa Bob.
• United States
28 Feb 07
Wow! I've met a lot of people online. I met my ex-husband and a bunch of friends on the pre-internet, LOL. There were things called Bullentin Board Systems, most were local although some were national. Sadly, I no longer have contact with them. I traveled to California (from Ohio) to meet a huge group of people from an online community I was a member of. My girlfriend, who was living with the person I was staying with. Fell in love, at first sight! I've met so many great (and a few not so great!) people online. It's a trip to finally put a name to the face. Sometimes, you're surprised, sometimes they're exactly like you thought they would be. Often times, you meet someone in person that you chatted with for so long online, that you forget you've just met them (in person!).
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@webeishere (36313)
• United States
28 Feb 07
Kewl deal. I love to travel but now that I'm taking care of my father I'm stuck on the puter almost all day. HAHAHAHA. I think I may have met 1,000 people or more online in my 15 years online. I've ran into a few bad ones. Thanks for the rsponse also. It's going to be fun knowing you from what I've heard so far. Happy posting from Grandpa Bob.
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@lady_luv (46)
• United States
28 Feb 07
When I was about 15 I met this girl from puerto Rico in an artist forum, she was so nice and she said she would come to California when our favorite band would be here in a concert. When she came here it was total HELL she was so sloppy and she had the biggest attitude ever. UGHH I hated that experience.
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@webeishere (36313)
• United States
28 Feb 07
Sorry to hear this. But in all actuality I was waiting for anyone to poast about a negative experience. That's what it's all about. Thanks for the response & do be careful meeting others though. Happy postings from grandpa Bob
@minnie_98214 (10557)
• United States
1 Mar 07
I know a few little ones that would like to see you visit there place soon and its not a bad drive. about 45 minutes.
• United States
1 Mar 07
I gotta be careful who i meet online i usually end up married lol. Im sure this one will work out much better.
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@webeishere (36313)
• United States
6 Mar 07
WHAT? You've met another man online? Has Andy found out yet? HAHAHAHA
• United States
28 Feb 07
Alot of people do it all the time especially for love, people would fly 21 hours or so. Personally, I flew from Reno to Vegas to meet someone from the internet that I met and we became friends. I dated a couple who drove 5 hours to me each way.