Husband Jealous of Baby

This is actually quite a common occurrence and people just learn to live with it. It is quite the case that when the child is born, the father or mother might be more attached to the child than the other partner. For your case, try to convince your husband that that is HIS son that you are loving. Your child is the result of you and him. You loving your son is you loving his son is you loving him. It's the same really when you think about it. Try to engage your husband when you are loving your son. guide the effort such that both you and your husband will love your child together - this will in fact prove to make your relationship better, and a more healthy one. Hope this helps. ;-)

I've often seen this happen, some people find it hard to adjust. Lots of men don't like spending time with small babies because they are so delicate and tiny and they are kinda afraid they will hurt them accidentally and a lot of mothers seem to be quite snappy when the daddys do something wrong, I know that has been my biggest problem, I'm kinda anal and hyper-vigilant about safety whereas he is more laidback with the kids. They are usually much better with the kids when they get old enough to play with properly. It can be hurtful when a child seems to prefer one parent over the other but they go through stages like that. It'll change lots of times over the months and years. Try and leave your baby with your husband for a few hours every now and then and he will have no choice but to look after him. Also, set aside a few hours for just you and your husband so that you can concentrate solely on each other. It can be hard to balance things in a new family so take it slowly and try not to worry, things will settle down eventually.

My boyfriend did the same thing, and I just made him spend more time with her. I go to school online, so when I am doing homework he spends time with her. She actually likes to be with him. Maybe you could get him to do this, so your son can get used to him.

yes i too feel some times the same as my son likes his mom more than me but i am not much concern or angry on that because it is true what u say that as he is more attached to moms compared to dad as dad all dat goes out for the work and it is mom who is at home looking after him and his needs so he will obivously feel his mom is greater than dad. dont worry ur husband also will realise after some days