Friendship or Money?

@yukyrob (167)
Philippines
February 28, 2007 2:03am CST
we are friends together for a few months, she always call on the phone in the end she lend me a money, and when the time come i need my money to be back she refused my calls and refused to see me...
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@oarnamav (2708)
• India
28 Feb 07
When you lend some money to your friend you must take it as you have donated the amount for the sake of friendship. Provided you are really dealing with a real friend and not a proxy account. As such the formula of lending money always faces this situation most of the times. Those who borrow the money always think that it's their skill that how smart they can fool the immatured snail-people. Actually, the friendship and love never expects or asks any favour in any form. Never mix-up money with these two words, and when do it don't expect it repaid or returned at all. It's the lesson your proxy friend has taught you with some fees in return, so that you would not make this blunder in the future. He/she has saved you from greater losses ahead, so just thank him/her for the lesson taught with a little fees. The money is a volatile matter, keep away from lending & spending fire.
@yukyrob (167)
• Philippines
28 Feb 07
wow, what a great response. thatnks a lot for your very positive opinion.
@shila07 (514)
• Bhutan
28 Feb 07
Money is money and friendship is friendship. You know what, this thing happend to me too. i too cannot ask the lended things back. You know we earn money out of our hard work , you should not leave the money like that. if she refuses your call You go to her home or office and ask her directly. SHe should give you the money.
@yukyrob (167)
• Philippines
28 Feb 07
i already i come to her home together with my two year old son, you know what happened? she dont even invite to enter, she tell us to leave because shes going somewhere.. and now she dont even give me a call and answer my calls. its so sad you, she dont even remember those good things when we were a good friends.