Between your guy/girl or your bestfriend, who would you choose?

I dont get it why you have to choose...I mean they are in a different place in your life. Your bestfriend is your best buddy... a long time friend, a brother/sister. And a think he already existbefore your bf/gf came. I think he/she should learn to accept that. And your gf/bf is that special someone you love. your bestfriend should consider that if he's/she's really your friend. Both of them dont want to hury you i guess. If they dont get along well then maybe you should give them a different time to be with. You can all adjust and choosing is not a good remedy. I believe that if they really love you as a bestfriend or bf/gf they would try to adjust for you. They both know that you cant choose between them because they are both important to you. And if ever you choose... how would the "not lucky" one would feel? they should give it a consideration... if they would be in that place.

I dont really want to choose since both are important to me. id rather talk to both of them and settle it once and for all. I know my best friend will understand me though and so will my husband. And if they care for me, then they should compromise for me. I dont need to choose between them because by then, its a sad story. So there's no need for choices. I love them both. Its the same as asking which will you choose, family or husband when your family cant agree with him.:)

Well one of my best friends is my exboyfriend. When my hubby and I started dating I told him about said ex. I told him I would continue my friendship and he would have to deal with it or leave. He chose to deal with it and in the end said ex was hubby's best man at our wedding. I guess the point to my story is if my friendship was there first I have loyalty to that person. At the same time if I am really in love then the two of them better get along... I guess if they didn't I would have to see them seperately.

I dont think you would have to chose between your friend and your boy/girl. Because those two are totally different people you met in your life. I have not been in this kind of situation before but what I think is you would have to give time to your boy/girl to adjust to your friends. The way they think what interest them and how they are. I am sure they will enjoy their company don't think negative always be a positive thinker my dear.... :-) Take care

well i will choose my boyfriend...not because i dont love or i dont value my bestfriend, its because im a type of person who fall inlove once in a bluemoon.In other words its hard for me to fall inlove right away.So everytime my heart falls inlove i give my best to that person and i tried my best to make it last as much as possible.Im a very friendly person,i have lots of friends around.So for me i can find a bestfriend any where and anytime i want but i cant tell my heart fall inlove anytime i want, thats the reason why i will choose the love of my life,,,my bf. :)